Single men have statistically the worst health of just about any group.
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Single men have statistically the worst health of just about any group.
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That's a great pick up line: "Hi, I am really pretty happy being single, but it isn't good for my health, so would you be interested in hooking up? Strictly for medicinal purposes, you understand."
That's a great pick up line: "Hi, I am really pretty happy being single, but it isn't good for my health, so would you be interested in hooking up? Strictly for medicinal purposes, you understand."
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You'd be surprised...some women are narrow-minded (as are some men). But you don't need to worry about THEM...
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Dude, it's not like you are going to waste away and die without a girlfriend! If you start looking at girls like a diabetic looks at insulin you are going to scare the hell out of them.
Dude, it's not like you are going to waste away and die without a girlfriend! If you start looking at girls like a diabetic looks at insulin you are going to scare the hell out of them.
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It is because you seem more confident. Less desperate. AND the fact that your girlfriend is alive proves you are not a serial killer. Or at least not a hasty serial killer.
It is because you seem more confident. Less desperate. AND the fact that your girlfriend is alive proves you are not a serial killer. Or at least not a hasty serial killer.
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lol!
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Pursue your own interests
Pursue your own interests. Build your own life. Try to develop some interests that involve other people. Join a hiking meetup. Find a meditation center. Get involved in yoga classes (good for your health AND full of healthy girls). That is how you will meet girls with similar interests. Then DOMINATE them! Hahahaha! JK.
Pursue your own interests. Build your own life. Try to develop some interests that involve other people. Join a hiking meetup. Find a meditation center. Get involved in yoga classes (good for your health AND full of healthy girls). That is how you will meet girls with similar interests. Then DOMINATE them! Hahahaha! JK.
Girlfriend=Women likely to maintain conversation with you for a long time. Typically being kinda flirty about your relationship with your current girlfriend. Likely to even initiate a conversation.
No Girlfriend=Rough start, you get that um who the fuck are you exactly look. Much less likely to initiate conversation and even maintain one with you. The attention span is like not even 10 percent what you get with girlfriend.
No Girlfriend=Rough start, you get that um who the fuck are you exactly look. Much less likely to initiate conversation and even maintain one with you. The attention span is like not even 10 percent what you get with girlfriend.
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Try and turn that around.
If you are approaching a girl you don't know, the last thing you want is a look on your face that says "gee, I sure would like to talk to you, if you don't mind". Instead you want a look on your face like, "hey fool, did you take my beer?" The more attractive the girl is, the less interest you should show. In fact, you should insult her shoes. An attractive girl has a continuous line of dorks complimenting her and fawning over her every day of her life. If you want to be ignored, just be another dork complimenting her. If you want to get her attention and not trigger her "get lost dork" reflex, DON'T ACT LIKE JUST ANOTHER DESPERATE DORK!. Ask her how far she had to chase the clown before she got his shoes. She might tell you to fuck off, but she might not. You put HER on the defensive and knock her off balance. If she doesn't tell you to fuck off, ask her to buy you a drink. She will refuse, but then you can say "fine, I'll buy the drinks, but then you have to sleep with me tonight". If she has a sense of humor, she will be laughing by now and you will be way past the "get lost dork" point. She will have to evaluate you outside her preconceived notions. If she doesn't have a sense of humor, then what would you want with her anyway?
The point is, you need to impress her with how little you care if she likes you or not.
But DON'T insult anything she can't change. Don't say "wow, nice shnoz, Sea Biscuit!".
Try and turn that around.
If you are approaching a girl you don't know, the last thing you want is a look on your face that says "gee, I sure would like to talk to you, if you don't mind". Instead you want a look on your face like, "hey fool, did you take my beer?" The more attractive the girl is, the less interest you should show. In fact, you should insult her shoes. An attractive girl has a continuous line of dorks complimenting her and fawning over her every day of her life. If you want to be ignored, just be another dork complimenting her. If you want to get her attention and not trigger her "get lost dork" reflex, DON'T ACT LIKE JUST ANOTHER DESPERATE DORK!. Ask her how far she had to chase the clown before she got his shoes. She might tell you to fuck off, but she might not. You put HER on the defensive and knock her off balance. If she doesn't tell you to fuck off, ask her to buy you a drink. She will refuse, but then you can say "fine, I'll buy the drinks, but then you have to sleep with me tonight". If she has a sense of humor, she will be laughing by now and you will be way past the "get lost dork" point. She will have to evaluate you outside her preconceived notions. If she doesn't have a sense of humor, then what would you want with her anyway?
The point is, you need to impress her with how little you care if she likes you or not.
But DON'T insult anything she can't change. Don't say "wow, nice shnoz, Sea Biscuit!".
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So what's the problem? Why is it so hard to understand us?
Maybe it's because you're cross-bred with llamas when your zygotes are fertilized on the mother ship.
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Naw, it's an Afrotheria cross-breed from the mother ship, HB.
I never woulda thought of that! You must've been studying your Scientology book.
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Much exacerbated by our schizophrenic commercialization of sexy/racy clothes and entertainment, while we simultaneously outlaw prostitution and persecute accidental pregnancies.
So long as it turns a buck, all bets are off.
It's not "just" sex that is all screwed up. How many of those boys who volunteered to go to Iraq cut their teeth on First Person Sniper and Real Time Strategy games?
Too much of a romantic, IN YOUR TWENTIES? If not then, WHEN? If young men will surrender Idealism, what next? Surrender of arms?
There is time enough to grow jaded and cynical. There is no hurry to make greater compromises than you had hoped to have to make. Patience is a virtue? "Patience is the greatest virtue," said Dionysius Cato in a couple hundred A.D.
I had to ponder that for awhile. Why did he say Patience was the GREATEST virtue? I mean, that's pretty definitive. What about Compassion? What about Kindness? What about Generosity? What about Faith? And then it hit me. With Patience, one might acquire all that is Good.
PLEASE don't make me haul out Diana Ross and the Supremes. You can't hurry Love...
People are taught to give up on dreams, period.
You can't have it all.
It's too good to last.
You can't have too much of a good thing.
Waiting for the other shoe to drop.
It is a very limited view of God, certainly. My understanding of God, if God there be, is that His Good is infinite. PLENTY to go around. But we are ENCOURAGED to settle. America is not only not living up to herself, we are proactively dissuaded from doing so.
In my experience, most people are afraid to be alone. In my experience, A LOT of people compromised too much too soon. PLUS, the older one grows, the more realistic one becomes. The longer one is alone, it's true that one gets more set in one's ways. But, I"m still feeling my way through the mine field, one also knows oneself better and has cared for oneself longer, so would consider fewer compromises anyway.
But that's years and years away for you. If you KNOW that, ultimately, you want the type of relationship that you describe, then now is the time to do more of the freewheeling adventure stuff. Wives and girlfriends worry. 'Cept the ones who kinda wouldn't mind if their husbands kick the bucket young, so they can collect on the insurance.
All things considered, it's best not to force this piece of the puzzle. Girls mature a couple years faster than boys, the science is in on that. In your age range, a LOT of girl/women are goin' after older guys. And a LOT of older guys go after younger girls. Early twenties, unless you're B.M.O.C. or rich or an athlete or Notable in whatever way, seriously, what do you have to offer but good company? They cannot LEARN from you, because you are just starting to figure shit out yourself -- you're BEHIND the girl/woman.
Maybe decide that you're NOT up to the pressure of a Significant Relationship this year or in college or whatever, be up front about that, and you may feel freer/easier about suggesting companionable outings. Obviously, if Someone Special materializes and seems to think you're Special too, hey, you're no dope. Guidelines, not rules. A loose plan, not a rigid program.
Maybe.
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