What I proposed for the FB event page should address most of the concerns, again is the planned description:
1. Large increasing number: The above description will be messaged daily to the people who are remaining on the FB event site to go over to the main website to see the actual number of attendees which would increase daily, way above the FB event since there will be promotions other than FB.
2. Messaging and invitation capability: by keeping the number low at the FB event and directing everyone over to the TeaParty11.com site, people can continue to easily promote the event on FB and have a way to direct everyone to the main site instead of messaging people one by one.
3. Centralized FB event: one event to keep things simple.
I think if the above happened for BTO, the BTO list would have been close to 30k.
This directs everyone to the TeaParty11.com website and it allows FB patriots to have easy way to invite people on FB. FB is a great tool, but it should not be the only one.