eduardo89
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Lol. True.
They were really really really horrible.
At one the brother of the bride continued a tradition of writing and singing a song for his wedded sisters. While a nice gesture it was like William Hung bad. I really coulda used shot during/after that.
I can't imagine a an alcohol free wedding in any of the countries I've lived in (Mexico, Germany, Spain, Russia, Colombia), except maybe at some fundamentalist Mormon town in Canada.
But you're completely right in the post above the one I'm quoting in that there is a huge difference between having a few drinks over the course of an evening and getting somewhat buzzed, yet still in control of yourself but at the same time being more relaxed and uninhibited (especially for dancing), and slamming down a dozen shots and losing all self-control and dignity (I'm guilty of that on may occasions).
I think it's also a cultural thing. In Germany on a nice day my friends and I would spend most of the drinking beer and having a great time on the open air terrace of the town pub. We wouldn't get drunk, but we'd definitely feel the effect of the alcohol. I don't find that sinful, and from Biblical evidence, neither would Jesus.