Thanks for apologizing, even though I don't think you needed to apologize you were not harsh we're just passionate

-- and I apologize if I seemed to assume your intent.
I don't expect to be able to convince everyone on every point on Islam, if that was the case I could just simply convert everyone. My real goal is to step away from the fear-mongering which is unfortunately becoming ubiquitous in the age of the alt-right and reactionary politics on the right.
I just like a measured approach when discussing religion, it's why rather than sticking to one hadith or verse, and over-analyzing the certain words used and coming up with ridiculous apologetic arguments, I like to look at the big picture first. I think if people did this they would find Islam was a positive for women, for minorities, for the downtrodden, it encourages charity, and kind treatment of everyone who is not actively against the Muslims, whether they are Muslim or non-Muslim.
Now you may disagree with some of the theistic points, how we view Jesus, or the nature of God. Those are really interesting discussions to have and I encourage that; we've had some nice discussions here and I've learned a lot about Christianity from my friends on this website, and in the end it really made me feel like we're more brethren than we might think.