So I woke up drunk today...

I've woken up drunk before once or twice, one of the most miserable feelings in the world.

I've dated a rather large girl before too, she outweighed my by 50 lbs or so and this was back when I was buff in shape and around 185 lbs myself; lot's of exercise and lots of excess energy/testosterone, not artificial, just young and lustful;)

Funny thing is the time I was dating her was one of those times I'd completely sworn off all mind altering substances for many months.

She was interesting and not unattractive but she was also a bit suicidal as I shortly found out, and I've zero desire to deal with someone who gets entranced at the thought of playing with broken glass.

I truly hope she is doing well but I completely lost touch with her on purpose.

I also went back to enjoying my mind altering substances and at least for me it keeps me from getting desperate enough to seek the affections of women who don't excite my mind and spirit as well as my body.

Even funnier thing is that some of those mind altering substances (not alcohol though) let's you see straight through the bullsh!t that the establishment lays down. Guess that's why they are not allowed.
 
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Funny you should mention that. I was at the dept store yesterday afternoon with my GF. She's petite as well....as we were passing through the store, I remarked that she would look good in a particular dress we passed. She said that she couldn't wear it...it wasn't in her size. I asked her why, she explained it was in the "women's" section....I remarked, "you're a woman." She said, "women's section means "fat women". :p

She sounds like an absolute doll. If these are the women within your life, you should introduce eduardo to your daughter - they would make a perfect pair, holding conversations about anyone they don't deem good enough (or, thin enough) to be within their presence.

Sorry, but I don't get a kick out of dissing or making fun of other women - bigger or thinner than me. I abandoned the girl-on-girl body hate when I reached puberty and became confident in my skin. :rolleyes:
 
She sounds like an absolute doll. If these are the women within your life, you should introduce eduardo to your daughter - they would make a perfect pair, holding conversations about anyone they don't deem good enough (or, thin enough) to be within their presence.

I've written nothing to insult you personally, yet you feel it warranted to attack my girlfriend AND my daughter. It doesn't appear that you actually are confident in your own skin, but then again, I don't KNOW you well enough to comment about you personally. The point of my comment was that the department store did not call it "plus sizes", instead calling it the "womens" dept. Is this common practice?
 
I've written nothing to insult you personally, yet you feel it warranted to attack my girlfriend AND my daughter. It doesn't appear that you actually are confident in your own skin, but then again, I don't KNOW you well enough to comment about you personally. The point of my comment was that the department store did not call it "plus sizes", instead calling it the "womens" dept. Is this common practice?

Don't hold your breath waiting for an apology.
 
I've written nothing to insult you personally, yet you feel it warranted to attack my girlfriend AND my daughter. It doesn't appear that you actually are confident in your own skin, but then again, I don't KNOW you well enough to comment about you personally. The point of my comment was that the department store did not call it "plus sizes", instead calling it the "womens" dept. Is this common practice?

Yes, it is common, just as it's called "petite" and not "short and narrow," and "juniors" instead of "hopelessly skanky." :p Oh and men's sizes are "husky" or "big and tall" rather than "holy crap there's an XXXXXXL?" Stores don't sell a lot of clothing if they insult the people they're trying to attract.

Except Dress Barn. I mean seriously.
 
I've written nothing to insult you personally, yet you feel it warranted to attack my girlfriend AND my daughter. It doesn't appear that you actually are confident in your own skin, but then again, I don't KNOW you well enough to comment about you personally. The point of my comment was that the department store did not call it "plus sizes", instead calling it the "womens" dept. Is this common practice?

Ding ding ding.

I think the "I'm so confident in my own skin!" in every single post gave it away.
 
She sounds like an absolute doll. If these are the women within your life, you should introduce eduardo to your daughter - they would make a perfect pair, holding conversations about anyone they don't deem good enough (or, thin enough) to be within their presence.

Sorry, but I don't get a kick out of dissing or making fun of other women - bigger or thinner than me. I abandoned the girl-on-girl body hate when I reached puberty and became confident in my skin. :rolleyes:

I'm flattered you thought of me again. :)

I've never said anyone who isn't thin enough isn't "good enough". I've just said my personal preference isn't for "curvy" or "real" women (euphemism that I honestly can't stand, let's just be honest, the mean chubby or fat). I don't find fat attractive, I think it shows a lack of self-love and I don't understand how people can honestly be happy with their self image looking like that. It's not healthy, either physically or mentally.

That's not to say I think large people are not "good enough". I don't get a "kick out of dissing or dissing" big girls. I'm not going to force my body image taste on other. I'm not going to lock you in a cage and feed you celery and water until you're skinny. I'm not going to force you onto a threadmill. If you're happy with your big ass, good for you. I don't like it and I won't pretend to find it attractive.

And you really don't come across as being confident with your body. Just look at your fat women/yoga thread. I know you won't like hearing this, but that whole thread just comes across as screaming for attention and need for validation from men, even though you pretend not to need or care for that.
 
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Yes, it is common, just as it's called "petite" and not "short and narrow,"

Every time I shop with my daughter, and we pass capris pants, I say look, Bel, they have your size! She just rolls her eyes...it's just good-natured fun.
 
Every time I shop with my daughter, and we pass capris pants, I say look, Bel, they have your size! She just rolls her eyes...it's just good-natured fun.
I know :) You asked if it was common practice, though, so I responded to that. The Juniors section (or, worse yet, the "Tween" section) has become my least favorite thing to pass. If I see another bikini designed with underwire for an elementary schooler....
 
If you're happy with your big ass, good for you. I don't like it and I won't pretend to find it attractive.

For many years, I was very thin, and for the most part, I found that thin (scrawny) guys were not attractive to women. I can't hold the women at fault....people like what they like.
 
For many years, I was very thin, and for the most part, I found that thin (scrawny) guys were not attractive to women. I can't hold the women at fault....people like what they like.

Being too thin is just as bad as being overweight. There's a middle ground. It's called being healthy. Eat well and work out and you'll be fine.

Scrawny, anorexic, fragile-looking girls are just as unattactive as fat girls,IMO. I like girls to be fit, to be toned, to look healthy.
 
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This couldn't be more true.

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Why is it taboo for someone to criticize someone for being fat, but perfectly okay to make a skinny girl feel like crap?
 
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