dannno
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I hope no one said anything important. I just looked at the pictures.![]()
Some people insinuated that if you think the first girl is cute, you are a pedophile...They said she looks 12, others here said she looked 20.
I'm guessing 14-17, but she could be outside of that range on either side, which is why I don't understand people who always complain about this stuff. If you don't like that look, fine.
I've known girls who were 21 who looked 14 or 15, in fact when I turned 21 bouncers and people checking my ID always told me I looked 14. I don't know why they always said 14, never 16, always 14. I was just at a bar with a bunch of friends about 6 months ago, there were 12 or so of us sitting out on the patio talking up a storm when a bouncer comes by, interrupts EVERYBODY's conversation which was really awkward, just to ask ME for my fucking ID even though I'd already shown it to them earlier, out of the entire group of 12+ people, because they didn't think I was 21. I'm 28 fucking years old. My friends who had known me for almost 10 years were blown away that had just happened. A few months ago I was standing around with my nephew who is 21, and somebody we were talking to was really surprised he was my nephew, he said they thought my 21 yr old nephew was older than me.
So I guess guys who go after 21 year old girls in bars who look 14 are 'pedophiles' and I guess all of the girls who liked me when I was 21 were also pedophiles for being attracted to someone who looked 14, being that they were my age. I suppose people who look young don't deserve to be in relationships because society will think your partner is sick in the head.
I thought this whole underage thing was supposed to be about the girl not having a mind that is developed enough despite the fact that they might be physically able and/or willing to participate in sexual activity. Of course I also knew girls in high school who were 14 or 15 and acted like they were in their 20s, while others acted like they were still 12. Hmmm, there goes that argument.
So I have a choice, I can find a girl around my age who is attracted to younger looking guys (rare, but not impossible), or I can find a girl who is younger (20ish) and is attracted to slightly more mature guys who look the same age. I guess the question is what was I supposed to do in college? Go after high school girls? As if.. My college was filled with plenty of attractive girls, no reason to go elsewhere. It was a tough time though, let me tell you. I got a good little share, nothing like some of my friends (who tried much less hard).
I guess everybody should be treated as an individual, and relationships should be primarily up to the individual along with their parents if they are underage. The government should stay out of it for the most part and other people should stop being so fucking judgmental.
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