RoyalShock
Member
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2007
- Messages
- 562
Or will you hold them hostage to your own ancient superstitions?
Honestly, who is going to engage in an intellectually honest discussion with you when you insult them? That is pathetic.
Until we start having kids that are emotionally and intellectually mature by the age of five, a free society must accept that parents get to choose how to raise their kids. And neither you or the government should interfere with that. Unless they are harming you or the kids are being abused, it's none of your business.
I went through public school in a conservative Kansas town, and while I wasn't bullied, I did get made fun of (like many kids are). But the taunting did affect my self-esteem and self-confidence into my adult years. I was in college before I "recovered". I probably would have benefitted from homeschooling at least in my early years.
I have a 15 year-old son who is happy and outgoing. But he had some social problems early due to being borderline ADHD (identified in 2nd grade at the same public school system I attended). I worked with him at home with how to deal with difficult social situations and he was able to grow and mature until he could handle just about anything by the time he reached middle school.
The point being is that had I not worked with him at home and allowed him to learn from watching other kids or instruction from teachers that had to deal with 25 kids, he'd have never adjusted. And instead of having a straight-A honors student who gets along with everyone and is well-liked, he might have been a problem-student always getting into trouble. The solutions to kid's problems begin at home. That's why homeschooling works so well. If we didn't have a great local school system here where there is extensive parental involvement and local influence, I'd find a way to homeschool my kids.