No, not at all. But I don't have an issue with self-defense, and I truly believe that (up until Vietnam) veterans really believed they were fighting for our freedoms and defending our country. There are a lot of conspiracy theories about
the attack on Pearl Harbor that led to our involvement in WWII, but as the Internet didn't exist in 1941, those people probably were not aware of the evidence that suggests FDR allowed that attack to happen...and they were worried that Japanese forces might go on to California next and then from there, who knows? They really believed they were defending the U.S. And, if what they believe is true, I have no problem with defense operations under those circumstances. It IS regrettable, but necessary.
Up until Vietnam, I tend to think most Americans viewed our military involvements that way.
Do you have any Vietnam or WWII vets in your family, FF? I believe they would be better qualified to answer that question than I am. I suggest that maybe you should have a discussion about this with them.