There is self to take care of. That is not selfishness but practically a duty. Then there is selfishness with no empathy. The lack of empathy in certain individuals is why the rest of the folks want a restrainer that works against them as often as is possible without effing up their lives.
I certainly agree that some people lack empathy, and I, like you, would also like to have organizations set up to prevent them from doing harm to others, and/or hold them accountable to their actions when their lack of empathy leads them to commit an act of aggression against another person.
The balance is off right now but there is no way that tossing it all out the window for private and quite corruptible and unanswerable to any jurisdiction thugs on a bought and paid for mission. The Sherriff and the law of the land is the best answer under current conditions and populace.
Rev9
The reality is that the state does not solve the problem you have illustrated, it actually exacerbates it. Of course there would still be corruption and violence in the absence of a state, but the point that anarchists like myself are trying to make clear, is that we should not institutionalize and legitimize such behaviour. We ought to regulate against it to the greatest possible extent.
I have no problem with the "law of the land", if you are referring to something along the lines of Natural Law, and wish to set up organizations to prevent things like the initiation of acts of violence, theft, fraud, etc. I have a problem if you want to grant some people the right to initiate the use of force, theft and fraud on other people.
The State, as it exists today, by it's very nature comes into existence and sustains itself through the initiation of acts of violence, theft and fraud. Due to this, It attracts those who lack empathy and wish to impose their views through the use of force. That's why tyrannical Baby Killers like Obama, Bush, Hitler, Stalin, Mubarrak, etc. etc. et. always seem to make it to the top of the pyramid, while those who truly empathize with the victims, like you and me, do not.
We are better people than that. We don't wish to impose violence on others, because we have empathy.