I sincerely appreciate osan's post, and agree it deserves attention. I will response in terms, language and at a level that seems to best fit the original message.
Osan, your semi-rhetorical question as to what you are missing is simple, you are missing the big picture. Many of the words you have written and the thoughts you have expressed have reverberated in my past and I finally achieved clarity when I later saw the big picture. From a certain lens, the entirely of humanity can be seen as a sad joke as you express, and one that you can give up on. It's a truly bitter pill to swallow to know that you were born into bondage, like your parents before you and their parents before them. It can go against the grain of everything you have been taught in our "rah, rah, liberty" society but that doesn't make it untrue. Given the totality of our plight it can make you think poorly of our species, I think when you get there you truly have hit rock bottom and nothing will change that except for a refocusing of ones life. Consider, at that rock bottom place you have to make a choice - you can choose to stand for humanity or you can turn your back on it. Consider that, if you can see the truth in things there is hope for yourself. Consider further that if you can see this then other humans can too and given that then perhaps there is reason to fight for your self-being and the future of mankind. There is no option to leave this planet, that certainly will be kept off the table, so the battle ground is right here on Earth. It's do or die, make or break, right here.
To be brutally honest, in reading your post I can see one underlying theme: despair. It might sound insulting for me to say this, I expect you to disagree and I apologize if that hurts but as I said, I understand your post and remind you that your thinking may be different some time down the road. I will explain some of why I say this and ask you to not despair and to consider a path that leads away from this.
Each of us is born into unique circumstances, with a unique background and personal traits which makes defining a right path forward impossible but I will share what works for me. First, accept the situation we are in, come to terms with it in all of its ugliness, study, research, seek the truth knowing it's not pretty by a long shot. Next, accept who you are, where you are and that the status-quo is not acceptable. Accept that you are human and that you are limited in what you can do, then don't just accept your humanity, celebrate it and the wonders that are provided for us on Earth. There are still so many amazing experiences one can have, things to do, and wonderful ways to be that haven't been taken away from us. Fill your life with things that make you happy, it can be an amazing journey and we each need to find ways to make this happen, this is part of the big picture. Along the way however, there is still our fight. Our freedom will not be handed to us on a platter but our resolve against the enemies of freedom must be permanent. We will not go away, we will never stop fighting. It is despair to give up on yourself, your species or the fight you know you must be in.
So the real question becomes, how do we fight? This is something that I have given great consideration to. Spending time trying to help win elections can in fact be a waste of time if done poorly or for the wrong reasons. Consider there can be two benefits to electoral politics. The first benefit is the opportunity to connect with people to deliver the message of true liberty in a way that will shift other peoples thinking. Can this work? Oh, absolutely, and consider that elections are one of the few times when many people are actually open to talking about issues so you are really just leveraging the election as a vehicle for your message. So even in losing an election there can still be smaller victories along the way. Will you be able to really connect with people in this way while phone banking? Very likely not, but does that mean you shouldn't phone bank? The answer would be, it depends upon the election and what the candidate will do once they get in office - which is the second possible benefit to electoral politics. Getting the right people elected certainly doesn't mean that we've won and we can pack it all up and go home-- not at all. Winning elections however can give a big booster shot to our message by getting a bigger stage for some of our top people that can delver the message, we can also get legislation introduced that pushes the envelope and hold other elected officials feet to the fire for their support. To not see any of our progress from elections as having payback is simply a product of despair and not seeing the big picture of the value.
Similar principles apply to our projects. Do many of our projects fail? Yes, of course, and likely some should have anyway, but others don't. Consider spending many, many hours helping on a video project to which someone later says "[this video] changed my life forever" - would you consider that accomplishing something? It did for me. We don't know yet what fruit will come out of the FSP, it's too soon to yet know. Even though we haven't won, it is despair to think that our completed projects have been fruitless and our on-going projects will bear none.
What makes a project or campaign worthy of effort is an entirely different matter, and a critically important one. Also consider there is a huge difference between "sure, I'll donate a few bucks" and "I'm quitting my job, selling everything and going all-in".
There is no perfect formula for success, there is no silver bullet that gains our freedom - if there was it would have already been done, but that's not cause to give up. As for the figurative idea of storming the castle there are both philosophical and practical reasons to find a better path. Practically speaking, could you articulate a winning solution given that you are out numbered 100,000:1, out-gunned 1,000,000:1 and out financed trillions to 1? Never mind that all of your communications and travels are tracked 20 times over and your neighbors are happy to see a local terrorist in planning be apprehended. Do you really think it would go unnoticed if plans were made here? That guideline is here for our survival, if that was our mindset or culture we'd get shut down. This mindset is not who we are anyway however because it is a critically flawed mindset because of this: we will be the ones creating victims and enemies. Creating victims is what they do, which is the real reason why this is a failed path. It is despair from a lack of ideas to think this could be a viable option.
Consider a vision that, as we are winning there will be no one left protecting the true enemies of liberty as they hide in their fake palaces, and then they can be brought to the justice of true honest and wise men for their crimes. We could still do better yet to offer peace for those who truly come to terms with their evil ways of the past, reject what they once stood for and seek repentance amongst us who want to build a morally sound society with liberty as its bedrock. I am sure there are some, and I would welcome them, we are after-all common in our beings of life.
Being an activist is a state of mind, no one is going to work 24/7 in activities towards the cause. There can be times, even extended, where you have to defer to other priorities, and there may be times when there is a poor cost-benefit to all project opportunities on the table, but these are temporary measures as the mindset of winning the fight stays rock solid. Finding the right path isn't always easy to figure out, I have struggled plenty with how to advanced this website with lots of things to do, build and organize but never with an assurance it's the best path forward even though it seems I have it figured out.
As for now, let them laugh, but the bells liberty will keep ringing louder- and they will do so right here.