Oh man, you have just taken this too far..
Well, I do tend to do that.

In a way, that is called: "Being a libertarian." I think most or all of us have that tendency. We take broadly popular ideas -- Liberty, Self-Ownership, Keeping the Fruits of Your Labors -- and we examine them, dissect them, and then, if we decide we agree with them, take them way too far! We just go totally overboard! If we
didn't have that tendency, we could happily get along holding one of the mainstream, normal, acceptable political ideologies. That would be good enough, close enough. But instead of playing hand grenades, libertarians are precision marksmen, obsessed with actually hitting the target. Actually getting at the truth of things, right in its meaty center.
Part of it, too, is that if I have an idea I like to try to frame it and phrase it in a provocative way, to bring the opposition out of the woodwork. I like getting push-back and debate from others with other contrary ideas, especially if they can express them well -- like you did! Plus, there's now relatively few people left on RPF, so I have to be
extra provocative if we're going to have any interesting discussions or debate at all.
Anyway...
Conforming to society is great when society is pushing people to conform to things like honesty and integrity in business dealings and interpersonal relationships, but conforming to society's standards of bull$#@! like wearing frilly shirts or ties is not something to be respected.
Well, I don't know that I'd go so far as to say following dress code is something to be
respected. It's not that hard to do, not that challenging, so it doesn't deserve some great respect. It just doesn't deserve disrespect either, which is what it mostly gets today and for the past fifty years.
People who try and uphold conforming to society's standards of BS damage society by making people afraid to act outside of those standards for no good reason, which makes life more boring.
I personally don't think it makes life more boring. When I go to church, everyone is basically dressed the same, but I am not bored. What makes them interesting is the variety of their ideas and personalities, the characters they are building.
One issue where we will probably disagree would be on modest dress.
True.
Telling people to cover up is one thing, I won't do it but I won't knock others for doing that, but telling people what style to cover up with I don't like at all.
I agree there's a big difference. Modesty is a morality issue -- don't go about trying to arouse lusts in others. Dressing in a classy, conservative, conformist way, on the other hand, is not a moral issue. It just is wise.
Here is my point, very simply, shown visually. We have one group:
These guys, or the American version of the Victorians the cowboys (The Victorians
loved the cowboys; cut from the same cloth):
They may all be wearing the same hat. Boring? Conformist? I don't think so. They were more individual, more independent, more courageous, more rugged, and more determined to keep their liberties than these guys:
The true individualists, the truly unique individual
MEN, that would be the first two pictures. They are the true non-conformists. The last two pictures are just a bunch of boring wannabes. They are not bucking anything. They wouldn't know how to stand up to a flea. They sure are making a statement with their appearance, though, right? And with nothing else.