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That's how I hooked the wifey. She had just gotten out of a bad relationship and probably would have said "no" as she wasn't ready for another relationship; but as much as they might protest most women don't want to be dateless on v-day. It took me about 3 months before I got a second date after that though, but when she was ready I was first in line. v-day for the win.
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Haha, highschool. Yeah. That was a long time ago.
I'm a heavy partier myself. I need to quit. I haven't found a meaningful relationship at the bars/clubs anyway, just hook-ups or whatever. I guess I COULD be in New Orleans enjoying mardi gras, having the time of my life and prob talking to tons of babes, but... hey I'm trying to do the right thing and work on my college classeslol
It may not be glorified but it's the right thing to do! =) So, you plannin on talkin 2 her? =)
I'm thinking about it. And another funny thing is this. The gym I go to is mainly mexican. I'm the only asian dude in this joint pretty much. The people here may or may not speak english so I'm not even sure I can communicate with her.
Hey are you a real DJ? If so, check out the beats, son.
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Haha yeah I'm a real DJ... Rocking to 2pac right now - YouTube - Tupac-Sleep
My music styles change up, mostly trance/house, but I'm def. on that hiphip tip
My music styles change up, mostly trance/house, but I'm def. on that hiphip tip
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Fruity loops and old records.
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Sure, why not?
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I would absolutely avoid "do you speak English?" as a pickup line. Just a thought.
From the PUA community, I have seen the strong survive, and the weak get taken in and generally they are much worse than when they went in. I was in for a year or so, but got out. It's really good to get over approaching fears, but other than that, it is so-so.
Specs: Yeah, it's funny how people say "I can't get into another relationship right now," but when the perfect person comes along, they completely forget that they're not supposed to be in a relationship.
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Try David DeAngelo:
YouTube - David DeAngelo on Picking Up Women In Bars & Clubs
Or Neil Strauss:
YouTube - Neil Strauss talks about THE GAME on Jimmy Kimmel and demo's on Jessica Alba
YouTube - David DeAngelo on Picking Up Women In Bars & Clubs
Or Neil Strauss:
YouTube - Neil Strauss talks about THE GAME on Jimmy Kimmel and demo's on Jessica Alba
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I was thinking, "Hablas ingles?" "No?" "Quieres chupar mi bicho?" "Bien!" or something like that.
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Yeah I actually know Adam Lyons. He was like voted the worlds #1 PUA. Honestly, the real trick to PUA is social dynamics. What you say, how you say it, when you say it, all kinds of things. I went to a bootcamp for free so I couldn't turn it down. I fell in love with a girl last March so I had to go. I went in like June.
I think it's great, because it helps you identify how people operate socially. Honestly I am more worried about the way our world operates, because we're doing a bad job. All I want is Ron Paul to run in 2012, and all I want to do is campaign for him. (lol).
But seriously, how could anyone raise a family with the way our government operates? By the time my kid could vote he'd be like 50 trillion dollars in debt. Obviously something's going to happen. I think Ron Paul can save us, but we don't have a lot of time.
So yeah, I think I have way more important things to worry about, like school. School won't last forever. Marriage will. At least real marriage. I'm not ready 4 that. I just wanna be in a normal relationship, but it's hard to find normal people out there. At least I'm doing the right thing...
I think it's great, because it helps you identify how people operate socially. Honestly I am more worried about the way our world operates, because we're doing a bad job. All I want is Ron Paul to run in 2012, and all I want to do is campaign for him. (lol).
But seriously, how could anyone raise a family with the way our government operates? By the time my kid could vote he'd be like 50 trillion dollars in debt. Obviously something's going to happen. I think Ron Paul can save us, but we don't have a lot of time.
So yeah, I think I have way more important things to worry about, like school. School won't last forever. Marriage will. At least real marriage. I'm not ready 4 that. I just wanna be in a normal relationship, but it's hard to find normal people out there. At least I'm doing the right thing...
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David DeAngelo: Most common mistake guys make is they WAY overdo the C&F, especially out of the club/bar scene and they never end up getting the number because it gets old. Gotta keep moving forward. What he teaches is decent, though. But it took me a couple months to realize that he actually transitions to real conversation...yeah...high school was fun.
Neil: He hasn't really come out with much to my knowledge, his email list was cool for a while, though. He seems like a cool guy. Unfortunately, I understood every acronym he used...
Fun scenario:
There was an attractive girl who was sitting at her desk. Two guys were a few rows behind her having a conversation and I was behind them:
Guy 1: Dude, that's an HB9.5, which routine should I run? The broken pencil or the Starbucks coffee?
Guy 2: I don't know, I would go with the coffee.
Guy 1: Yeah, I would too, but the broken pencil is better. I am going to need to DHV really fast and probably neg twice. You might have to back me up for social proof.
The conversation went on for another minute and I shook my head, walked up to her with an observational opener, I believe it was "how'd you do on that test?" We had a great conversation, she told me she had a boyfriend (Facebook verfied
), and that was that. We're still friends.I walk back, and the guys are still talking and not approaching. They were still in their own heads. I went back to my seat after smiling and saying "hey" to them, and I got to hear them talk about how I "didn't use a routine" or whatever it was. Oh yeah, they still haven't talked to her yet.
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What's the story behind that? You fell in love with someone before the bootcamp?
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Remember, the girl will be thinking to herself about you, "How much work will I have to put in to fix this one up", so don't be perfect, girls like a fixer-up (Easier to train to their needs), but don't act too clueless, because then she'll think you are a lost cause.
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Agreed.
It's like a club of fail.
I can't even be sure that he's really joking about using "suck my dick" as a pickup line.
*sighs*
I don't remember who talked to who first when I met Josh (at a Ron Paul meetup). I just remember I told him I was kind of nervous about handing out fliers, because I'd never done it before and he was like, "It's easy, you just go up to them and say 'Have you heard of Ron Paul?' and hand them a flyer." He asked for my number later. It was cute. 
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