dannno
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Oh please elaborate...![]()
Ok.
Well first of all they're all different, it is measured by the term "libido", and there are good, bad, ugly, sexy, upstanding, moral, nasty, good hearts, bad hearts, moral and immoral men (and women) who have both very high and very low libidos.
That is why it's bad to judge people based on their sexual activities, and that is, according to Christianity, why Jesus came. Because everybody is imperfect, and everybody has different desires for different things at different levels. Personally, I don't think having sex is inherently bad or immoral. It certainly can turn into that, because you can really hurt someone when you lie. But sex doesn't always lead to hurt feelings, it's a beautiful thing and a fun activity. I see no reason why it is inherently bad.
People who are born with insatiable libidos crave sex as much as a fat person who hasn't eaten in 12 hours or more craves a buffet. Ever been in a restaurant and can barely read the menu and can't think straight you're so hungry?? Imagine having other things that give you that same sort of craving. So yes, sometimes it really DOES feel like you're going to die if you don't have sex, at least for some people. The brain puts out the same sort of chemicals that makes you feel exactly the same way, so that you think you need to have sex to survive. It's a trick your brain plays and it's not fun.
The male/female break-down I insinuated in the first post is false, but there are probably 3-10 times as many insatiable men as there are women, so women just call those freaks sluts and don't give it a second thought. Men, on the other hand, are a bit more understanding because there are more who have very high libidos. I'd also say that a woman necessitates a higher libido, relatively to a man, in order to "require" sex. That's related to a biological function...however there are some women who require sex and some men that don't (Abstinent men, Priests who don't have sex, etc..)