I'm also an American living in China due to my wife. I'd like to add my comments:
It's interesting talking to the locals (through my wife as interpreter). Most Chinese are guilty of "America worship". They are completely convinced that in the USA we are walking on streets of gold and everyone is happy.
Funny you say that because the way my wife and I see it, the Chinese government are trying to be more like the US government, but only in the bad ways. By that, I mean adding street cameras, monopolizing production of pork to a small numbers of farmers who provide most of the meat, policy of aggression in foreign countries, etc.
They really have low regard for their own "government" and freely express it.
Just not where public officials can hear it.
One taxi driver was heaping praise on the USA and bad-mouthing the Beijing masters. When I asked him whether he believes any of the "news" in China, he was instant in his response "All Bullshit!!" He does not believe any of it.
Chinese citizens are smarter than American citizens in that sense.
They are stuck in a system where the only people who "own" taxi companies are wealthy individuals with strong family ties to the biggest government officials.
Yep, everything is owned by the government.
(but then most of our churches seem to be in bed with the government so that's not saying much).
Those connected to the government do the best here, just like the US, but more.
One thing I've learned from traveling is that it seems that all people have the same basic goals. They want to care for and advance their position and the position of their families. Families care for and nurture their children and try to make their lives better. There will always be dis-functional families of course, but those are the minority.
Unlike the welfare state in this country. People believe in taking care of themselves rather than believe in the god of government.
Most of the people live in the cities because that's where the opportunities are and where they can "get ahead". There are vast areas in the west of China that are almost uninhabited.
That's what they say, but those people also live crammed in shitty apartments. It boggles the mind.
I was saying to my wife that kids who come to the big cities to "get ahead" should stay in the countryside and learn farming. She agrees with me, but farmers are looked down on in the Chinese community so much that they can't take the shame.
China is pretty safe. I know there are drugs and crime here but the most I've ever witnessed is shoplifting and minor theft. I've never seen anyone with a gun other than sometimes a military guard at a military post (and not many of those). The cops don't have guns so you're chance of being shot is pretty small here (I sound like an anti-gun nut...). If you are caught doing something the government thugs don't like (such as bad mouthing them) you could find yourself at the end of one of their guns when they execute you, but you really have to throw it in their faces to get something that extreme. They execute a lot of people here (no one has the exact number) but there are several billion people, so it's a small percentage.
One thing I like about here is that cops don't bother you. I get nervous around cops in the US because they'll bust you for small infraction. I never felt safe around a cop, but felt like someone I want to avoid because I'll get harassed.
In a way, China is more free that the US, but like Anarchist said, as long as you lay off certain taboos like bad mouthing the government, government leaves you alone.
Disclaimer: Whenever I point out the "advantages" of living in China vs living in USA, I'm NOT saying that it's better to live in China, but I will say that the "advantages" of living in the USA are shrinking...
My thoughts exactly.