My Wife is going through Chemo...

I sent you a PM I've studied Cancer and found every treatment for it. To protect her immune system the most important thing to get is Glutathione if she's doing Chemo. It will increase her system to prevent the damage from chemo. I sent you a pm check it.


 
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There seems to be a lot of good advice on this thread. The only, and in my opinion best, advice for the depression and anxiety is prayer, repentance of sins and acceptance of Jesus Christ.

We pray for all those undertaking chemotherapy "chemo.” the use of medicines or drugs to treat disease, that the Lord will work out His perfect will in your situation and bring about healing.

We ask that The Great Physician will heal all those that have undergone surgery and radiation therapy and that the fire of God will destroy all the cancer cells.

We speak peace to all the patients and ask the healing virtue of Our Lord God will flow through every vein, tissue, cell, ligament and that healingwill manifest.

We believe that Gods desire is manifest in your life. His desire is written in 3 John 2 “Dear friend, I pray that you my enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along”. We speak peace to all the families having cancer patients.

We speak uncommon provisions to cater for all the expenses needed to take care of the patients.
We destroy every generational curses and declare that they will not continue but the blessings of God will overshadow each and every one of you.

We are in agreement with Gods word in Jeremiah 30:17 “ But I will restore you to health and heal your wounds declares the LORD.”

So be it, in Jesus Name. Amen.
 
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Im not trying to frighten you but there have been numerous incidents about chemo meds being "watered down". If they said her hair would be gone in 5 days and she had it for 3 weeks I would talk to your doctor pronto.

EDIT: Have you heard of a Basic pH diet. One of my past jobs was working to develop a biochemistry essay to screen over a million compounds to test their effectivness against an enzyme crucial in cancer growth. My boss, the smartest man I've ever met and I've met some smart ones, was really excited about the discovery that cancer cells require an acidic enviroment to grow. The lower the blood pH the better cancer cells grew, the higher the pH the worse they grew and even died off. There is plenty of info on the web on this, look it up.
 
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Oh, I am so sorry for both of you.

My suggestion for the depression would be to find a support group. I've been the sick one in the past, and finding a "home" in a group of people who really, really understood what I was going through made all the difference in the world.

St, Johns Wort is all natural, and it works amazingly well too.
 
What else can we use to flush this chemo crap out of the body? Right now she's doing apple cider vinegar 1 or 2 times a day, along with JuicePlus and Goji berry shots and lots of water, green tea and gatorade. We are looking for other options to flush the stuff out.

One of the most effective ways to flush the toxins out is coffee enemas. I realize it might sound awful, but they can actually be an easy and relatively pleasant experience. They are a cornerstone of the Gerson cancer therapy, and can be very helpful with pain relief, as well. They work by stimulating the liver's natural detox systems. If you'd like details, send me a PM.

And what can be done about her depression? She's really anxious about it reoccuring somewhere else in her body down the road. We've done a lot of mental exercises about this, but could still use some feedback.

Depression can be tough to treat, since there are so many potential causes. Keeping all micronutrient levels topped-up is crucial. Beyond that, it's often a matter of trial-and-error until you find the right recipe. 5-HTP helps some people. Magnesium helps many. B-vitamins, Vit C and Vit D help others. Finding a way to feel like she has some control over her life is also likely to be key.
 
Prayers for both of you. No firsthand experience with cancer but plenty with anxiety. Get her a bottle of "rescue remedy". She can have a few drops or spritzes as often as she likes, non addictive and no negative side effects. It really takes the edge off fear and terror.
 
as for depression, I don't generally recommend drugs unless all others fail, like somebody said here before, sunshine, I think companionship, sex, humorous cartoons help. But it comes down to what her actual concerns are.

What is she afraid of, or unhappy about? If she's worried it'll reoccur, tell her if it does, she has the best husband and hospital waiting to fix it.

Agreed in general, but not during chemo. For one thing, the toxic drugs will be transferred to the partner and you do NOT want those chemicals in you if you do not absolutely have to have them as they seriously screw up cell mitosis, which is what they are intended to do. Second, all the mucosa become very frail and sex could actually cause serious and possibly permanent injury to her organs. Bear in mind the nature of the act, then the nature of the drug. Healing would be very protracted as likely would be any associated pain. One is under enough stress as it is, what with weakness, nausea that can be very intense and prolonged, and general frailty of the body as the result of the assault it is being forced to endure.

No matter how good the prognosis may be, the process is tough. Some people weather it better than others, but it is never a cakewalk so far as I have seen, and I have now seen hundreds of other people in the same boat. It sucks.
 
Please contact Bee Wilder at www.healingnaturalybybee.com

Join her free yahoo group. Get her support and input at $50.00 per hour.

Doing this will not be easy. God knows and loves you both and we will be praying for you.

Louise
 
Stress and cancer have all but been confirmed to be direct links. Obviously genetics have some to play as well as the foods we eat. Eat natural foods. Avoid things processed and stuff with additives. The most important thing is to reduce stress. Have fun, enjoy the little things. All our lives are finite. Talk about really fun and exciting things you guys can do together when she starts feeling better. Start small and get bigger the better she feels. A bout with cancer is life changing regardless of the outcome of treatment... but it can either turn into a positive life altering experience or a negative one. You need to choose the path together as a couple or together as a family.
 
She was diagnosed with breast cancer in November. She had surgery to have the mass removed. Stage 2. Nodes negative. After surgery she got off her pain meds from the double mastectomy, she got really, really anxious and depressed about the whole ordeal, reoccurrence and survival. Our general doc put her on a mild anti-depressant which helps her appetite and sleep.

On Friday I shaved her head because her hair was falling out so bad. She kept her for 3 weeks, and the nurse said it would fall out after 5 says. So I look at it like she's handling the Chemo well.

So I have 2 questions.

What else can we use to flush this chemo crap out of the body? Right now she's doing apple cider vinegar 1 or 2 times a day, along with JuicePlus and Goji berry shots and lots of water, green tea and gatorade. We are looking for other options to flush the stuff out.

And what can be done about her depression? She's really anxious about it reoccuring somewhere else in her body down the road. We've done a lot of mental exercises about this, but could still use some feedback.

Thanks.

Chinese traditional medicine (acupuncture and herbs) will fix the side effects of the chemo as long as you go to someone who knows what he is talking about. If the cancer isn't too advanced, chinese traditional medicine can get rid of the cancer too.
 
and that link doesn't work.

Bee does not sell a thing. The yahoo group is free. If someone wants more individual help, she is available at a very reasonable $50.00 per hour. I just tried this link and it worked for me.
 
www.healingnaturallybybee.com

The emphasis is on diet and supplements which Bee does not sell. She is not a hawker like Mercola, even though he has much good information. She does not cost thousands of dollars much like the controversial Dr. B.
 
It just takes time. I just went through chemo/radiation for throat cancer. (no it wasn't from smoking) I understand that it wasn't fun. But you should understand that you don't really want to try and flush it out. Let it run its course. What you can do is medical cannabis, which will help with depression, appetite, and pain. I suggest raw juicing of fresh undried plant matter if you can get it. It doesn't cause euphoria that way and the CBD content (which is what you want) is up to 600x more concentrated than dired/heated material. Also make double, triple, quadruple sure that she is drinking enough water. I cannot stress that enough. She needs at LEAST 48oz of water a day. Not getting enough water will make the side effects feel 50x worse. Trust me, I ended up in the ER 4 times because of it. It affected my breathing and everything. So take that very seriously. Other than that, I cannot comment on any of the suggestions in this thread other than to say I did a lot of that stuff and found it to be ineffective. Definitely DO keep an open line of communication with her team of Doctors and push them to address whatever issues you find to be important. And lastly, I would offer prayer as a curative. I believe God hears us and acts upon our true needs. I know that when things were getting to me, I would give those burdens to God and then next thing I knew something to help me was popping up along the road. I know this was the Father at work preparing the way ahead for me. I did not want for anything when I placed myself at the feet of the Lord. It's true. Today I am cancer free. I still have a long way to go before I can be declared "cured" but I will take it and be grateful to the Father who saved my life.

All my love and prayers for you and her and your family. Father be with these people and shower them with grace and healing, in the name of Jesus.

<3,
Hx
 
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