Exactly!
I honestly don't get this preoccupation with Mary some people have. It truly baffles me.
What is baffling to me is why some people who call themselves Christians are scandalized by people honoring the Mother of Christ. Even Luther, will all his errors, was correct in many parts, and this includes in his agreement with the patristic witness that the Theotokos was ever-virgin and that she is to be honored above all saints.
The veneration of Mary is inscribed in the very depths of the human heart.
(Sermon, September 1, 1522)
[She is the] highest woman and the noblest gem in Christianity after Christ . . . She is nobility, wisdom, and holiness personified. We can never honor her enough.
(Sermon, Christmas, 1531)
No woman is like you. You are more than Eve or Sarah, blessed above all nobility, wisdom, and sanctity.
(Sermon, Feast of the Visitation, 1537)
One should honor Mary as she herself wished and as she expressed it in the Magnificat. She praised God for his deeds. How then can we praise her? The true honor of Mary is the honor of God, the praise of God's grace . . . Mary is nothing for the sake of herself, but for the sake of Christ . . . Mary does not wish that we come to her, but through her to God.
(Explanation of the Magnificat, 1521)
Luther gives the Blessed Virgin the exalted position of "Spiritual Mother" for Christians:
Mary is the Mother of Jesus and the Mother of all of us even though it was Christ alone who reposed on her knees . . . If he is ours, we ought to be in his situation; there where he is, we ought also to be and all that he has ought to be ours, and his mother is also our mother.
(Sermon, Christmas, 1529)
It is a sweet and pious belief that the infusion of Mary's soul was effected without original sin; so that in the very infusion of her soul she was also purified from original sin and adorned with God's gifts, receiving a pure soul infused by God; thus from the first moment she began to live she was free from all sin"
(Sermon: "On the Day of the Conception of the Mother of God," 1527)
She is full of grace, proclaimed to be entirely without sin- something exceedingly great. For God's grace fills her with everything good and makes her devoid of all evil.
(Personal {"Little"} Prayer Book, 1522)
Martin Luther on Mary's Perpetual Virginity
Christ, our Savior, was the real and natural fruit of Mary's virginal womb . . . This was without the cooperation of a man, and
she remained a virgin after that.
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Luther's Works, eds. Jaroslav Pelikan (vols. 1-30) & Helmut T. Lehmann (vols. 31-55), St. Louis: Concordia Pub. House (vols. 1-30); Philadelphia: Fortress Press (vols. 31-55), 1955, v.22:23 /
Sermons on John, chaps. 1-4 (1539)}
Christ . . . was the only Son of Mary, and the Virgin Mary bore no children besides Him . . . I am inclined to agree with those who declare that 'brothers' really mean 'cousins' here, for Holy Writ and the Jews always call cousins brothers.
{Pelikan,
ibid., v.22:214-15 /
Sermons on John, chaps. 1-4 (1539)}
A new lie about me is being circulated. I am supposed to have preached and written that Mary, the mother of God, was not a virgin either before or after the birth of Christ . . .
{Pelikan,
ibid.,v.45:199 /
That Jesus Christ was Born a Jew (1523)}
Scripture does not say or indicate that she later lost her virginity . . . When Matthew [1:25] says that Joseph did not know Mary carnally until she had brought forth her son, it does not follow that he knew her subsequently; on the contrary, it means that he never did know her . . . This babble . . . is without justification . . . he has neither noticed nor paid any attention to either Scripture or the common idiom.
{Pelikan,
ibid., v.45:206,212-3 /
That Jesus Christ was Born a Jew (1523) }
". . . she is full of grace, proclaimed to be entirely without sin. . . . God's grace fills her with everything good and makes her devoid of all evil. . . . God is with her, meaning that all she did or left undone is divine and the action of God in her. Moreover, God guarded and protected her from all that might be hurtful to her."
(Luther's Works, American edition, vol. 43, p. 40, ed. H. Lehmann, Fortress, 1968)
". . . she is rightly called not only the mother of the man, but also the Mother of God. . . . it is certain that Mary is the Mother of the real and true God."
{Sermon on John 14. 16: Luther's Works (St. Louis, ed. Jaroslav, Pelican, Concordia. vol. 24. p. 107)}
"Christ our Savior was the real and natural fruit of Mary's virginal womb. . . . This was without the cooperation of a man, and she remained a virgin after that."
(On the Gospel of St. John: Luther's Works, vol. 22. p. 23, ed. Jaroslav Pelican, Concordia, 1957)
"Men have crowded all her glory into a single phrase: The Mother of God. No one can say anything greater of her, though he had as many tongues as there are leaves on the trees."
She was not sinless. Only God is sinless.
She was not sinless by nature, for only Christ is sinless by nature. She was made sinless by grace, for having been overcome by the grace of the Holy Spirit Who purified her, she became a sinless tabernacle to give
flesh and birth to the Sinless Christ.
She did not remain a virgin her entire life. (And there's nothing wrong with that. God created marriage, marriage and having children is a good thing. A blessing!)
There is nothing wrong with having children, but the Virgin Mary only had one. She remained a virgin her whole life, that is the testimony of the saints and the Church, until it was changed by the later Reformers. Christ's brothers were cousins and half brothers/sisters which Joseph had in a prior marriage (he was an older widow when he was betrothed to the Virgin Mary). To think that Joseph would have sex with Mary after he knew she gave birth to the Son of God is impious. People live lives in total virginity now, for example in monasteries, and the Mother of God who gave Her flesh to our God could not keep her self pure and inviolate? Why? Because you misinterpret the Scriptures against the testimony of the 2000 year old Church? Do you know better then the saints and martyrs of the first centuries how the term 'brothers, applied to Christ? Where do you get this confidence? How are you so right and every one is so wrong? I personally would not feel comfortable in such a position, knowing how much of a sinner I am. Are you perhaps sinless that you do not need the testimony of the earliest Saints? I dare not do such a thing.
Mary is All Holy by the Grace of God. In the Holy Spirit, she is Ever-pure, having received the full healing made possible by Christ, which we will not know until the Last Day. For that reason we glorify and honor the Mother of God! For she is what we aspire to be! To be Christ-bearers in imitation of her, through living holy lives of humility and obedience to God's will. We too share in the same glory as she does when we become filled by the Holy Spirit of God. Let us learn from those who too have lived such holy lives, namely the saints, and learn what obedience to God is and true faith. That way we too might grow in light and life and in the likeness of Jesus Christ, entering into the communion of His saints and the future resurrection and life in the Kingdom of God.
I think it's sad that we are even having this debate.
What is sad is that people are scandalized by the Theotokos and her important role in our salvation.
There is no need to elevate Mary to a near deity. Isn't God enough???
She is near deity because of the Holy Spirit in her, but she is not God, and while she was born a daughter of Eve and became the Mother of God, she too died, for Christ alone was born without any sin and only by Christ was the curse of Adam reversed. Christ is the Savior to the Theotokos just as He is the Savior to all men. The Theotokos has received the great honor of ascending bodily to heaven after her death due to the special dispensation and love of God. While Christ is the Firstfruits of our future resurrected nature, the Theotokos by special dispensation of God is living that future life now in the Kingdom.
How is this possible? By the Almighty God!