Then it is time for you to choose:
A: Too much freedom, where smokers are annoying
B: Too little freedom, where smokers are in prisons
Get off the fence and pick one.
(not attempting to be insulting or demeaning, so please dont take it as such)
@Warrior_of_Freedom, you never answered this.
Im not trying to be a dick about this particular question, but it was made to prove a point. This post actually isnt all attacks on you either.
Everyone knows our Govt uses as many dirty tactics as possible to get what it wants. The choices you are offered in ANY situation is the Illusion of Choice. This is what creates Thinking Inside The "Box". The limitation of choices is "The Box". And this is a choice that is being gradually and progressively programmed into the minds of the people, not just you. Like I said, not an attempt to be insulting directly toward you. Forget about yourself and smoking for just a sec and think about how many people will choose the first choice. I know you already said you dont want to throw people in jail for smoking in general, but think about how many people WILL choose the first choice. Whats happening is the Limitation of Choices creates a Polarization, which results in a Divide and Conquer strategy. Any group, be it an entire country, or something a bit smaller in scale, like one Forum that supports one Presidential Candidate can not survive if it remains divided against itself. Admittedly, as a Forum divided against itself, we are less influenced by other things that would affect a country, like economy or race, so here, we can omit those influences.
BOTH CHOICES WERE A TRAP
It didnt matter how you would have answered this. BOTH choices would have validated the existence of the State. Throwing people in jail results in bigger Govt. However, the "Freedom" choice is also a TRAP. It is a trap because we again validate the existence of Govt to come in, define what our Rights are, and get involved any time someone elses Rights are infringed on. These are the Choices that are being offered by Govt. Either validate a bigger Govt, or validate bigger Govt. Its not a real choice, again, it is the Illusion of Choice. Now, how many people reading this picked up on BOTH CHOICES BEING A TRAP?
There are many lessons in Public Schools. Very few actually have to do with Education. All those Multiple Choice Tests create a mindset in the student to choose only what is offered to them. Limitation of Choice is one of the real lessons in Schools. Illusion of Authority is another. Any time there is a conflict between students, they are taught to turn to whoever represents the Authority figure to settle their problems for them. Yet, the conflicts that occur between students almost never have anything to do with the subject matter that is taught. That is another lesson. Authority has ALL the answers, is NEVER wrong, NEVER is to blame for causing conflict, and Authority is the ONLY way to resolve conflict. Always surrender your own power to resolve a conflict to someone in Authority. The school subject is so vast that it does deserve its own damn forum here. Yet, the lessons taught by Public Schools still influence the way we think in this very thread. Its the Reinforcement of those School Concepts to perpetuate dependancy on Authority to solve ALL problems, even if we can resolve those problems ourselves. I think this is something we can pretty much agree on.
You got your Chocolate on my Peanut Butter! Bullshit, you got your Peanut Butter all over my Chocolate! Horseshit, you got your Chocolate in my Peanut Butter! Donkeyshit, you got your Peanut Butter all over my Choclate! Giraffe-shit, you got your Chocolate in my Peanut Butter!
GOVT BENEFITS FROM CONFLICT
Any time there is a conflict, Govt can benefit by validating its existence. It doesnt matter the subject, or especially the SCALE. Large scale disagreements obviously benefit Govt by validating its existence to "lay down the Law", however, same thing happens on a SMALL SCALE. As is taught in Public School, ALWAYS seek the figure of Authority to resolve ALL conflicts. Its Brainwashing. Its Programming. There are a ton of psychological factors that come into play with both. Brainwashing has roughly Ten Steps: Assault on Self, Installation of Guilt, Self Betrayal, Breaking Point, Channeling of Guilt, Replacement Solution, Channeling of Guilt, Reinforcement of Solution, Distancing of Self, Rebirth. This is covered in another thread, but as you can see, it plays heavily on both Guilt and replacing ones concept of what Self means. But not all psychological manipulations can qualify as Brainwashing. And these manipulations are often very simple. So simple they are almost always missed and ignored. One example is "Priming". Thats where repeating a phrase comes into play. "The economy is doing just fine". Repeat it often enough and it will displace a persons own conclusions to the point where a person thinks that the expected conclusion is one they created themselves. Once all these manipulations of any persons psyche are in place, Govt steps in to act like the Hero when it resolves the conflict it created. And Smoking is no exception. Govt didnt create Tobacco, but creates and benefits from the Conflicts that result. Apply to ANY conflict-trigger. Religion. Race. Welfare. Wages. Smoking. Drinking and Driving. Sex. Creationism vs Evolution. Feminism. Doesnt matter the subject, Govt steps in to validate its own existence by "laying down the Law". Make no mistake, Govt is the Real Enemy here that pushes only its own agendas while absolving itself of any Real Guilt for escalating the Conflicts it benefits from.
SCOPE OF AUTHORITY
If we are in a conflict, total power over the situation is neither in my hands, nor is it in yours. That total control of the situation however is contained somewhere between the both of us. Introduce a third party, and that control is shared between our collective. But all too often that Third Party that gets involved is Govt, and it places Claim on Authority to resolve the situation, favoring one or the other. I believe I have true Unlimited Authority over myself and only myself. I believe you have Unlimited Authority over yourself and only yourself. Govt believes it has Unlimited Authority over everything. The solution that should be realized is to take back that Authority from Govt and kick it out of involvement in our disagreement. We both share Total Power over any situation, but when Govt comes in, we choose to surrender our Shared Authority to let Govt get involved in the first place. Its the only time we are going to come to a meaningful resolution, as we both know Govt solutions are worthless because they are intended to deprive us of our individual Self Authority.
I dont have any Authority over you, nor should I. I cant tell you how to live your life in any way shape or form. If you have kids and decide to drink alcohol in front of your kids, I have no valid Authority to get involved. My Rights END where yours begin. Thus, you have Valid Authority to say "you can NOT smoke", but that Authority is limited in its Scope of where it is Valid. You can say "No Smoking in my house" and that is Valid. The Conflict that occurs is that Grey Area where our Rights end. It isnt quite as clearly defined as a Property Line, there is a bit of a fuzzy area. So to avoid confusion and fuzzy area conflict I'll cut my own crap and state what should be perfectly clear as a violation of scope of Rights. If I were to force you to Smoke, that would be a clear violation. If I were to force you to get Vaccinated, follow my Religion, have forced sex with who I told you to have sex with, these would all be perfectly clear violations of the Scope of my Authority. Now, when we flip the coin and play Devils Advocate, we dont see the same thing. You dont have a Valid Scope of Authority in your Rights to decree that I do NOT have the Right to Smoke. Remember, keep Govt out of this. Now lets examine the coin in detail. One side, I can force you to smoke. An obvious Rights violation. Flip the coin so on the other side, you can NOT smoke. It is just as much of a Rights Violation.
These Rights and Scope of Authority exist in Public as well as Private. I'll stick with Private for a second. Lets say we are neighbors. I smoke and you dont. I still dont have any Right to force you to smoke, just as you dont have any Right to force me to NOT smoke. And what we are seeing is that many many people are trying to claim that a person does not have any Right to smoke on Property that they own and will attack every vector possible to eliminate that persons unenumerated Right to smoke on their own property. These are obvious violations of a persons Rights. Size of property does not matter. Conditions do not matter. Direction of wind does not matter. Problem is when Govt gets involved, they dont just decrease the Rights of the smoker, they decrease the Rights of the Non Smoker as well, claiming that the Non Smoker also does not have the same Rights based on the attack vectors and arguments they themselves have made to invalidate the Rights of the Smoker. Thus, if you succeed in saying I dont have a Right to smoke on my own property (hypothetical, not that you actually said this), you are also saying that you also do NOT have a Right to Private Property, and that is exceptionally dangerous for both of us. Again, the real choice to my self quote at the start of this wall of text was to choose neither A or B, which means we both need to define our mutual Scope of Authority between ourselves without Govt. And that Scope is the realization of our Limits. I can choose to smoke or not smoke, but get zero say-so in what you do. You can choose to smoke or not smoke, but also get zero say-so in what I do.
SCOPE OF AUTHORITY EXISTS IN PUBLIC
Just as we can clearly define the Limits of our Rights, either with a Property Line, or clearly define what is in that Grey Area, those same Limits exist in Public. For example, Privacy. Privacy exists in Public because those Limits also exist in Public. Its a common misconception for one to think that they have a Right to Privacy (also not enumerated, penumbra) at home, but not in Public. They do. You go to lunch with your boss and discuss work related stuff. Just because you are in Public, it does not mean I have a Right to listen to everything you two say between each other.
Apply to Smoking In Public. I still do not have a Right to force you to Smoke in Public. However, flip the coin, you cant tell me I can not Smoke in Public as it exceeds your Scope of Authority. Im talking about First Hand Smoke, not 2nd Hand Smoke wishy washy baloney excuses. Always examine both sides of the coin and flip it often. Say youre the smoker, and you got offended by inhaling whatever I exhale. Do I have a right to breathe whatever I exhale on you? Its not forcing First Hand Clean Air, but 2nd Hand Clean Air (hypothetical where you were the smoker). To keep things in perspective, First Hand Smoking needs to be compared to First Hand Smoking. Second Hand Smoking (or breathing) needs to be compared to Second Hand Smoking. Lets reiterate. I can not force you to Smoke First Hand in Public, just as you can not force me to Not Smoke First Hand in Public. The End.
PEACEFUL NON-GOVT RESOLUTION
Conflicts need to be resolved without Govt. So lets create a hypothetical conflict and resolve it without Govt. I go to the Beach at the same time as you go to the Beach. I smoke and you dont. I still dont have a Right to force you to First Hand Smoke, and you dont have a Right to tell me Not to Smoke. I light up and youre down wind of me. The only real resolution we can have is to tell Govt to go fuck itself and we fight our own battles. You come up to me and tell me the smoke is bothering you. You might be suprised at my response not being as negative as you would imagine. So I'll offer a comprimise. I'll switch with you and go down wind, or move a bit further away so Im not blowing it right in your face. I may be respectful depending on how I am approached. Ask me and I'll try to comprimise. If you really want to be a Leader, suggest the comprimise that satisfies both of us. You make the suggestion of standing over there instead of demanding I not smoke period. Its that attitude that many people have of "do what the fuck I told you to do or I'll get Govt involved" that escalates most conficts, and again, goal is to Exclude Govt as the Power over the situation is shared between the Two Of Us and we should NEVER surrender our Power of Authority of Self to Govt. Conflicts also occur when people fail to recognize the Scope of their Authority of Self, which is when we see the crowd that doesnt appear to be present here, that demand No Smoking In Your Own Home, or Outlaw Smoking. Define and Defend your Rights in Valid Scope. Choose cooperation and comprimise of a situation without surrendering your Authority of Self to a Third Party. If a valid solution can not be had, re-examine all aspects of the situation. If I come to your home, you do have Valid Authority in Scope to say I can not smoke in your house. But if you come over to my home and I smoke, you dont have Valid Authority to force me to not smoke, however, you can ask me to not smoke around you. If I give you a ride in my car and I smoke in my car, ask me, and I will probably choose to not smoke in my car, because you asked and didnt try to force it. If you offer me a ride in your car and I know you dont smoke, I wont smoke in it. Just because I smoke doesnt mean I want to trample your Rights or offend you at every possible opportunity. I have a feeling youre probably similar in most aspects, and, like me, have more than a few triggers.
This is NOT an advocation of Anarchy. This is the consequence of the inconveniences of Too Much Liberty instead of the Opposite. Govt has its Valid Scope as well, and to keep a Balanced Govt, that Scope needs to be Limited. We both need to cooperate with each other so Govt does not come in and do what it does best, deprive us of BOTH our Rights and every aspect of our Rights. As it stands, we barely have any Rights left when Govt is involved, but, without Govt, we both still have Unlimited Inalienable Rights, with or without Govt, and WE are the ones that need to clearly define between ourselves what those Rights are when there is any form of disagreement.
I do understand that Health Concerns are a valid issue. However, any time we get Govt involved, it most often has the opposite effect of the intended results. Thus, the real "Healthy" choice is that we cooperate with each other and dont allow Govt to get involved at all. Im sure you would much rather deal with the consequences of asking me to move downwind of you than to call the Cops and get a Jackboot Thug that comes along and ends the life of the wrong person. How many times have Cops shown up and killed the person who asked for their help? The Courts defend the Cops, the Lawyers defend the Courts, the Legislators enable the Lawyers, and zero accountability is had for Govt Violence. Govt Solution on this scale to any Conflict is NEVER an option, ever. Never call the Cops. Especially for situations you can resolve yourself in proper Scope. So sure, 2nd Hand Smoke can be dangerous, but so can First Hand, and not everyone is offended by Second Hand Smoke. As a smoker, Im not. Even some non smokers arent offended either. But those are things for each individual to decide. Put side by side, the danger of a Govt that is Too Big to be held accountable far outweighs the danger of 2nd Hand Smoke.
For the record, if you had told me to "Go fuck myself" with those choices that I offered and suggested a Third Option (outside "The Box") for a
Peaceful Conclusion, I actually would have
+Repped you because you recognized the biggest threat to Rights, period, is Govt's Illusion of Choice, not the topic of Smoking.