I do think I understand what Kahless is saying about avoiding a situation and wearing appropriate attire. I think that's one of those things your grandparents teach you about dressing nicely and having a good first impression. That's a general decent rule.
However I don't believe that's rule applies in this specific situation, as others have stated a million times.
I also think AP in POST #90 hit the nail on the head. She got tackled and sexually assaulted because she DARED to ask, "WHY?"
In the Good Old US of A, if you dare to SPEAK back or NOT COMPLY immediately, you will be tackled, raped, humiliated, jailed, tortured, and/or possibly killed.
It doesn't matter if she was wearing a formal business suit or Doctor's coat or whatever. HOW THE FUCK DID THAT BITCH ASK WHY??? AND Im sure the women was already Pissed with her husband and probably some stress getting the kids buckled in and what not...And behind her is a cop saying, "I need your id" She was probably thinking, "WHAT THE FUCK!?! NOW WHAT??" So I'm sure it came out with a bit of frustration.
And if you speak to a LEO with a bit of frustration in your voice, You will be humiliated, you can bet on that. They are your masters. You are a bunch of fucking mundanes. You are NO ONE. You will only speak when asked a question, and you will speak quietly and politely and you will ONLY answer that question. YOU WILL OBEY ALL COMMANDS. AND YOU WILL DO IT IMMEDIATELY. YOU WILL COMPLY like the fucking second class citizen you are, you just never realized it before.
The video attached is a lesson. COMPLY. OBEY. DO NOT ASK QUESTIONS, DO NOT HESITATE, DO NOT SPEAK RUDELY, SHOW NO RESISTANCE, IF you do this, maybe you will survive the encounter, and maybe you won't be humiliated. BUT there are NO GUARANTEES, you still may be Tackled, raped, and humiliated.
Anyone with a pea sized brain knew this is a mother doing an errand with 2 small kids, who was no harm to anyone. Her crime was her attitude. Not her clothes, not dropping rocks in a mail slot. The only crime was her attitude. THIS IS the USA today.
The Police are a "paramilitary" force, and the citizens are the enemy.
Think of it this way. A Soldier in Iraq is looking for terrorists, the soldier is at war. Anyone could be an enemy. Anyone could have a bomb strapped to them or be planting IED's, kids, women, men, anyone. EVERYONE is the enemy. When a Soldier is called, they expect a hostile condition, and everyone they encounter is an enemy. Anyone that mouths off to them they start to beat the crap out of, and possibly bring back to base to interrogate and maybe torture. People that silently comply, Maybe the frisk, but probably they will let go after they are sure the area is secure.
THE POLICE think the EXACT SAME THING. YOU are the local iraqi, they think YOU may be the terrorist, YOU are the enemy.
When The Post office called 911, the SOLDIERS came in EXPECTING A HOSTILE CONDITION. A mundane was identified (an iraqi, Roxi's friend), she didn't immediately comply. She needed to be taught a lesson. Area was secured, and the SOLDIERS returned to base.
Soldiers = Police Force. The difference is the battleground is our home, and we are the enemy.