Actually I think you're completely wrong, he gets so much tail I doubt he ever uses any type of physical coercion to get sex. In fact he probably turns down sex all the time just because he can. If you can easily get 20 women to sleep with you in a day if you really try, this is pretty easy to do. I've seen these guys pick up women in public places, they are all over him after they say fucked up things to them, I don't think this whole "implicit threat of violence" has any grounds at all on how he gets what he gets, at least in none of the cases I've witnessed.
As far as his tinder comments being all over the place, I explained that earlier. When a girl can't peg you and is trying to figure you out if you have her confused she can't stop focusing on you and that means you probably win if you play it right.