In all my reading and researching what I have found is the proverbial rabbit hole in Alice in Wonderland. I was pretty smug in regards to my views before this, just a regular beer drinking football watching Joe. What I have now learned is I know less and less each day. The wife thinks I am getting a little wacky with my politics. So much so that we try to avoid discussing it with each other for fear of arguments arising from our divergent views.
I am right there with you, and assure you that you are not crazy. Today is the information age. Before I saw Ron Paul a couple weeks ago on YouTube, I would have never even considered the idea of no federal reserve. When you learn how it was started though, you realize it is based on fraud. But please, don't even for a second be afraid to share your thoughts. I come from a family of neo-con type people (support Bush nomatter what because you have to if you want to be a good Christian).
Here is what you do: You *only* make positive statements. I would *NEVER* say that I'm anti-war around my family. I would just say that "I just think we've been there too long" or use the word "for peace" instead of "anti-war". Today I was talking to a family member and it went something like this:
(Me)"I didn't object to Iraq that much but its been so long they havn't set a date I've given up on that"
(him)"We have to stay in Iraq because they need us there. Thinks are falling apart."
(me)"Yeah, they are falling apart. But will it really get worse if they leave?"
"Oh yeah, things will spread... with all that is happening in Afganistan, Saudi Arabia....(I cut him off)"
(me)"I thought the Saudis were in good shape"
"I don't know... but things could fall apart if we pulled out immedately"
The conversation didn't go on much longer, but I do what I always do... keep positive, never directly disagree, and most importantly keep an open mind in case I am wrong. To anyone else, including both me and him, it was just another conversation. Believe me... you can tell people what you think even when you are the most opposite there is if you just follow those guidelines. In fact let me just tell you that all my good man had to tell me was a good piece of evidence that things would spread into other countries and I would have re-set my views on setting a date for Iraq. If you keep an open mind and accept that others have the right to keep theirs closed, its not that tough to be a retro-con in a family of neo-cons.