I'm not saying gay marriage is bad, i'm saying it a distraction issue that is for political theatre. And most of these people don't care anything else. If they were, why not set up charities to help reform Arabia? The federal government is not treating them unequally, they simply recognize (or used to) that states have the right to define marriage as they see fit. They don't give gay couples tax benefits. That is bad, but now that they are paying the same rates (some even more like 9000 dollars more) they are not any more free. This debate especially from pro-gay advocates is a classic example of good political planning and silencing those who speak differently. it is now suicide to even say Mom and dad is better than two of one. The gay lobby is a lot more influential than it used to be. And they perverse incentives, create american tribalism and is an example of how our nation has gone from E Pluribus Unum to Ubi est mea. I find it distasteful that it is now okay to sue businesses for not serving gay couples, while it is not okay to say anything against them without being decried. That is not to say bigger fish should be fried. I still focus on Israel and Foreign Policy as well as quasi socialist crony capitalism. (however i am happy that Royal Mail has been privatized. I find it embarassing that Britain has privatize their national mail before we did.) Gay Marriage is not a defining issue that improved life or shook boundaries. It is merely a cooked job of media and opportunistic politicians who want to court more votes. Then they promise new initiatives and special representation. Whites, Blacks, Rich/Poor, and Men and Women have all fallen into this trap.
Marriage is a personal thing, it depends on the man and woman (or parties involved.) It should be a private contract that can be upheld. With this, people get to define what a marriage is. This Third way enhances freedom, Gets rid of extra government power and satisfies all parties. It does not undo progress, it leaps it.