I think we're more concerned with who is right and what is right and wrong here.
You should understand why your viewpoints are unpopular here.
It seems like you're more interested in defending these vapid suppositions of yours.
Why? I have no idea. But my great-grandfathers didn't drive because cars weren't invented yet.
Then, even after they were, they didn't still, but one was a foreman for the electric rail, the streetcars, it was called the United Electric Railways, the UER. They came to this country in the late 1800's when a young man in his 20's could buy a house and feed his own family and obtain acres of land, etc. for nothing but a couple years hard work. Not even speaking English.
It was a far better place, a happier place, and a more meaningful place.