Don't blame the victim. While a lot of incels are just horrible people, the reality is that this generation is being systematically castrated by forces they cannot even imagine. The omnipotent, inflationary warfare state has harnessed the entirety of its war-propaganda resources, including entire desert-floors' worth of GPU servers running the most advanced AI algorithms, to tell this generation that they will not, must not and cannot form families and reproduce. It's not just a question of whether it's "easy", as though the problem is just that young men need to suck it up and say Hi to a girl for once. Some of them do, sure. But that's not what's really at stake. The issue is far, far more extensive than that. And blaming the victim is just carrying water for the depop Agenda.
I'm well aware of the strong forces at work, however ultimately it is up to the individual what choices they make and how they live. The forces generally only have as much control as the individual allows them to, at least in the individual's daily affairs. But yes, I see it first hand all the time but there's not much point posting the details of my observations. All I've personally tried to do is set a positive example for them (younger beta/incel/orbiter/simp types) to choose whether to follow or not, or at least take note of how the responses they receive from women are very different than the responses I receive. You can lead a horse to water and all that.
Doubling down is not a logical counter-argument. You're just repeating yourself and continuing to blame the victim. The so-called "PUA community" is just as toxic as the incel community and the "solutions" they are peddling are pure poison. True masculinity and true family order is found only by living consistently with God's own order, as he originally created it. Observing nature, or observing what works in picking-uphookersloose women, is of no use in understanding the order that God created. It is just a poison of a different flavor.
There's another aspect to it you two aren't considering: Some people look at the world and ask themselves, would I be doing a child a favor bringing him or her into this world?
Hello, child! Welcome to the End Times! Good luck having a happy life!