MelissaWV
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And again, if someone comes to you asking for help in changing a behavior, your saying "Okay I will help you" is not chastisement. I've been both the person asking for help and the person who has been approached by someone wanting help. Not on this particular issue, but why should it matter? Not judging is not judging. If offering someone help who came to you asking for it is somehow judging or chastising, then psychology and counseling as a whole should be abolished.
I think most of the controversy with this is not about adults. Adults seek counseling for all sorts of things, and this would be one of them. The gray area for me is when someone plunks their kid into a "program" along these lines because little Bobby got caught playing with dolls, or their teen daughter was kissing another teen girl, and the parent freaks out.