dannno
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It's a personal thing.
I mean, we really don't know the circumstances.
I'm pretty sure a lot of women here will get mad for me saying this, but if she was holding out on him then I place the blame equally on both of them. If I were married for years and years and my wife started holding out on sex, I don't know that I would hunt for it but if the sex came to me I would take it without any moral qualms. That doesn't mean I would leave her, and it looks like he doesn't want that to happen. I guess you have to be male to understand, but sex is a completely different thing for guys.
I don't know if this was the situation or not, it's all speculation, but I wouldn't really say this is a lack of character neccessarily.. more like a sign of a strong libido. If he has the will to stay and support his family and leave behind the slut, then that is what matters.
He was a war hawk anyway, so no biggie.
I mean, we really don't know the circumstances.
I'm pretty sure a lot of women here will get mad for me saying this, but if she was holding out on him then I place the blame equally on both of them. If I were married for years and years and my wife started holding out on sex, I don't know that I would hunt for it but if the sex came to me I would take it without any moral qualms. That doesn't mean I would leave her, and it looks like he doesn't want that to happen. I guess you have to be male to understand, but sex is a completely different thing for guys.
I don't know if this was the situation or not, it's all speculation, but I wouldn't really say this is a lack of character neccessarily.. more like a sign of a strong libido. If he has the will to stay and support his family and leave behind the slut, then that is what matters.
He was a war hawk anyway, so no biggie.