He has the most awesome grandpa on earth (my dad). He's his primary male role model. We see my parents several times a week (they're only a mile away). There are no men around where I live to date. I live in a village (pop. under 5000). Everyone knows everyone. And working 2 jobs I just don't have the time to drive an hour away to look. I dated a guy a few years back who was jealous of the time and attention I gave my son. In the past 8 years I've dated 2 people for a combined total of 4 months.
We just don't need an outsider brought into our tight family at this point. We've had so many monumental moments and experiences... they've already missed out. And my son likes girls. But he's pretty picky. He's a unique kid who's going to need a unique (probably a gamer) girl.
Here's the kinda stuff we do. LOL (Anyone who's ever played first person shooters will appreciate certain parts of this.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlr0r0NNiL8