My comment on the AOL poll
I voted Yes, but I am not an "unrepentant Southerner"; a California liberal Democrat by birth, all my ancestors fought for Lincoln in the "Civil" War, and it wasn't until my 40s that I learned how completely I'd been lied to about it:
1) It wasn't a "civil" war, it was a war of secession, like, say, Croatia seceding from Yugoslavia, and for equally good reasons.
2) It wasn't fought to end slavery, but over economic issues primarily, and Lincoln's purpose was really to convert the United States from a federation of sovereign states into a unitary empire with himself as emperor -- and he succeeded.
3) Not only did it not really end slavery -- it simply transferred ownership of the slaves, by force, from their former masters in the Southern states to the U.S. federal government -- but it also reduced the rest of the population to the status of serfs, who now must report everything we do to the government, and ask for permission for anything we may want to do.
4) Abraham Lincoln, in Congress, January 12, 1848: "Any people anywhere, being inclined and having the power, have the right to rise up and shake off the existing government, and form a new one that suits them better. ... Any portion of such people, that can, may revolutionize, and make their own of so much of the territory as they inhabit."
5) Passions on both sides having been stirred to fever pitch (not by accident), the Confederacy unfortunately allowed itself to be provoked into "firing the first shot", thereby "starting" a war it couldn't win -- at least not by conventional means, and unfortunately they were too "honorable" to resort to the guerrilla tactics that could have prevailed.
See books "The South Was Right" and "The Real Lincoln" for an eye-opening education.