I generally stay out of these, But I have some change jingling in my pocket, so I will throw in a couple coppers.
I do not consider myself "religious" But am a Christian believer. by no means perfect.
I I have been described as/accused of,being an anarchist. That is incorrect. Though I have some libertarian views, I am not a Libertarian.
I am an Independent Individualist. And an Angry American.
Now, in my youth and upbringing I was raised in a religious home and taught/ indoctrinated in the church that my parents went to. I was involved is church activities and active in the choir, plays etc.
I even went to a private school for a short time. I hated it.
I pretty much rejected all of it when I left home, as do many.
My present faith I came to through my own life, study and searching.
It had little to do with any"programing"I received as a child.
Each person will make these decisions for them self, regardless of school or home life.
We are promised (by the Constitution) a freedom OF religion. It is each persons individual choice.
Nowhere are we promised freedom FROM religion.
Come to your own decision and live your own life. You can teach, or hope to inspire, but you have no right to control others.
Thank you for sharing this. I agree with you. I take offense to people who talk about Christianity and say things like, "it's oppressive, it's mind control, etc." I went to church willingly. My parents always told me that it was my choice to attend or not, it was my choice to be part of functions. I made the choice myself.
I did not lead a sheltered life full of nothing but the Word of God and never did anything because my "religion" didn't allow me to.
I'm not perfect either, but I am a Christian. I don't go to church, I read the Bible every so often, and for God's sake I have been down some roads no one wants to go, but still remains my faith in God.
So, I think it's just people's excuse to say that religion is oppressive and mind controlling, it's not. Yea there are always going to be parents who force their children to go to church and things like that but what happens afterwards is they, like you said, turn away but eventually they come back around their own way.
I especially agree with your last sentence. I think it's important to realize that it's everyone's choice what they believe in and what they teach their children and it's no one else's business. If I want to teach my child that they were created by a loving and awesome God, that's my choice. If someone wants to tell their child that they are related to apes, that's their choice. And neither one of us should force our views on eachother.
This is why I don't think evolution or creationism should be taught in public schools, but that's another story. All I can say is that if I ever have children I will keep them as far away from public schools as possible... Talk about mind controlling and oppressive!