Ok, having lived in several states, I can't resist this one. I'll start with the bottom of the barrel: PA, MD, and IA. MD has vehicle inspections and lots of regulation at every level of government. Property taxes are somewhat low if you buy in a (previously, this has probably changed over the last 10 years with the housing bubble) undervalued neighborhood. PA is worse than MD, has even more regulation and property taxes are double. The hoops to jump through to register a car in PA are awful, and inspection requirements are even worse than MD. DE is similar, roughly about the same as MD, but with PA level property taxes to offset the lack of a sales tax. Utilities are astronomical. The cities are crawling with all sort of inspectors, out to write violations for anything possible to make up for their budget shortfalls. But at least in these states, cops in most areas have better things to do than to mess with average people. In IA, property taxes vary depending on location. No vehicle inspections here either, making it cheap to buy a car and get it on the road. However, IA is quite socially intolerant except for the more populated areas and college towns. The worst thing about IA is that they have probably more cops per capita than any other state. Tons and tons of bored cops everywhere, with very little real crime, and nothing to do but mess with people. I've been hassled more by cops in IA than anywhere else.
Now to the fun part. After wanting to get the hell out of MD and PA, I moved to NH and lived there for a while. I hate to say it, but I was unimpressed. Actually, to be honest, I thought it sucked. Yes, you absolutely DO have a small handful of freedoms there that you do not have anywhere else, but this is cancelled out by being an overall lousy place for the average person to live. Cost of living is extremely high, even higher than the mid-atlantic states have become. Move to NH, and just from what it costs for housing, your standard of living WILL be lowered unless you come from NYC, CA, or HI. So what if you don't pay sales or income tax? You end up paying MORE overall in what it costs to live there! The fact that apartments and rooms are rented by the WEEK to make the price seem lower is saying a lot, I've never seen that anywhere else except for the most low end of low end rentals. Unless you're all set to buy a house, even finding a place to live at any price is a huge hassle unless you know someone who is willing / able to give you an inside track. You call a number seen on a "for rent" sign or on craigslist, and it's virtually impossible to get a landlord to call you back. You have to practically beg someone to rent you even the most shoddy and overpriced room or apartment (I've never run into this problem anywhere else I've ever lived). As difficult as it already is, it becomes virtually impossible if you happen to have a dog. Sure, NH has "low unemployment". But good luck actually finding work that pays significantly more than the minimum wage, unless you're a software or aerospace engineer. For the average working-class person, the job market in NH sucks, and in this respect, you're better off in the mid-atlantic states that have the same or slightly lower cost of living. Self-employment was FAR more difficult (more like impossible) in NH than any other place I've ever lived. Like MD and PA, vehicle inspections make it very expensive to buy a car and get it on the road. Property taxes are absolutely awful. Best things about NH: Not having to wear a seatbelt (I absolutely HATE seatbelt laws), open carry is allowed everywhere as a matter of course, socially tolerant environment, and even though there is very little real crime, cops seem to hassle people less here than anywhere else I've ever been. After living in NH for over a year, having my standard of living reduced to rock bottom (try cramming the contents of a 2600 square foot house into the only single room you can afford and are able to rent), and being all but unable to make a living, it was past due to get the hell out of there. Sorry, but I don't call freedom not being able to actually keep any of the little money you're able to make, and having to pay it all out just to attempt to cram everything you own into the tiniest space that you had to beg someone to rent to you. That simply isn't worth not having to wear a seatbelt, being able to walk around on the street with a gun, and being able to say that you pay "low" taxes.
So, I decided to start over yet again in another state, but this time, I started from a different perspective. Through additional research, I discovered a "housing affordability index" map (unfortunately, I can't seem to find it again quickly to post here for reference). This nifty little map measured states by the hours needed to work at minimum wage, to be able to afford to rent an "average" (taken as a statewide average over what was advertised on craigslist for whatever period of time they measured) 2 bedroom apartment. Needless to say, NH scored very close to the bottom, and the mid-atlantic states weren't very far behind. However, the eye-popping revelation here was that there seemed to be a handful of states in the south that were virtually unaffected by the housing bubble, and that it appeared that there really were places still existing where one could start over in life (after having your friendly local government steal your paid-for house through eminent domain - yes, this actually happened to me, I literally lost the result of my entire life's work), and actually be able to retain a halfway decent standard of living. Next was the issue of where to find freedom in these places, and could it be done on a scale comparable to NH? After undertaking further research and comparing the laws in this handful of southern states, the answer was a resounding YES!
So, where did I end up? My vote for the top state: OKLAHOMA! By a WIDE margin! Cost of living is FAR lower than MT, ID, and WY, going by advertised rents and home prices on craigslist and the MLS. NO vehicle inspections, meaning that you can buy and car and get it on the road for dirt cheap. For LESS than what I paid for a ROOM in NH, I now have a 2 bedroom HOUSE with a garage and a large yard. Utilities here are dirt cheap, a fraction of what they cost in the northeast. My landlord actually went out of my way to get my business and retain it, he actually asked me to rent his place instead of the other way around. Finding work here is easy, plenty of it to go around, and "help wanted" signs everywhere for all sorts of positions. Two months after I moved here, work started coming to me, and I now have more work than I can keep up with. Plenty of vacant houses here available for cheap, so I hope to get back into real estate soon and buy another house for cash or on contract (I don't do business with banks). Plenty of property available cheaply (almost a tenth of the cost of the cheapest land available anywhere in NH), and if you buy outside of town limits, there are NO zoning laws, building inspections, or permits needed (this situation only exists in very few places in NH, very rural and out of the way places). I'll eventually build my own off-grid house, and if anyone else wants one, I'll be glad to build them one and will eventually post on this in the marketplace part of the forums, now that I've spilled the beans here. OK has about the most lax homeschooling laws in the country, and is strong on guns rights. No helmet laws, and fireworks are legal, just as in NH. Property taxes are dirt cheap, and more than offset having a sales and income tax (those taxes are largely avoidable anyways, whereas a property tax is impossible to avoid!) for an average person's income level. Just as in NH, both obombacare and real id are nullified. Unlike NH, a music and art scene actually exists without having to drive to another state (it helps that a bar can just be a bar without having to derive at least 50% of their income from restaurant sales, as in NH). The only hassle cops seem to give anyone is speeding tickets on the highways. There is a vibrant and active group of dedicated activists here that are quite welcoming to newcomers. Remember the parking lot rump convention? Overall, OK is everything that I had hoped NH would be, and then some! Anyone care to join me? I'd be glad to help anyone else who would like to move to a place that is at least the equal of NH as far as freedom goes, if not better. Perhaps NH would be better for you. It wasn't for me, and I have no doubt whatsoever that OK is THE place, life is good here, as good if not better than I've ever had it before.
No doubt I'll get my share of detractors who will flame me for daring to say anything negative about NH, and to suggest that someplace else is actually better for the average type of person. To them, I'll simply smile and nod. I've lived in both places, I like it far better here, and I'm entitled to have that opinion, just as they may have theirs.
Edit: Although this report is newer and measures the "housing affordability index" slightly differently than what I had seen before, the map contained here shows the same thing:
http://nlihc.org/oor/2012
Compare the states where housing is the most affordable. OK is one of the absolute lowest, NH is one of the highest. Of all the states where the cost of housing is highest, NH has the most freedom by far. Of all the states where the cost of housing is the lowest, OK has the most amount of freedom by far. And all things considered, OK is at least equal with regards to freedom as NH, if not better.
Edit #2: Being used to the states mentioned above, OK was a bit of culture shock for me. People actually do walk around here in 10 gallon hats, string ties, and cowboy boots, you are very much so in the south here. You meet someone, and one of the first questions they ask is what church you go to (my answer: I avoid it religiously). You walk into a business, and instead of "smoking prohibited by law", the sign on the door says "no firearms".