OK, well yes, it sounds like your family has benefited from the government at the expense of the rest of America. But that is the way government interference in the economy always is. There are benefits that are highly visible to the small number of people they're concentrated on, paid for by costs that are invisible because they are so diffused across the whole rest of the population. The total costs invariably exceed the total benefits. But the people bearing those costs don't have enough of a perceived incentive to lobby the government to reduce them to outweigh the very high perceived incentive that the beneficiaries of the government interference have to lobby the government to do it.
"We," meaning you, benefit. Whereas "we," meaning everyone else, suffer.