This country sucks. I get so frustrated at times that I find myself wishing for a collapse in hopes that the welfare freebies go away. I just did my taxes, and had conversations--in one case, a heated argument--with family who did taxes too. Here is modern Amerika for you.
My wife and I are pulling in 85k - 100k a year. Because we "make so much," we do not qualify for government handouts. Between federal, state and local taxes, 30%+ of our income goes to government right off the bat. Then over 20% goes to student loans. We live in a nice two-bedroom apartment and can afford to eat healthy food (Whole Foods, organics, etc). But we are not rich--we have not been on vacation in almost four years; my wife has wanted/needed a new Macbook for a year but we can't afford one; we buy most of our clothes from the thrift store; we have only been out to eat two times since September; we never pay money for entertainment such as concerts, football games, movie theaters, etc.
Two different sets of relatives of mine make around 20k a year. In both families the wife does not work, only the husband. One of them makes like $10 an hour at a big-box store, the other probably makes $12ish at a hospital. One family is expecting a third child, the other the second. This means that both families get enough tax credits so that they get way more money than they pay in--one is getting almost $10k "back" this April. Whereas I have to pay my own medical bills, these guys get Medicaid; and for all I know are on food stamps and who knows what else. Both families seem to eat out as much as they want, pay for entertainment, and in the last 6 months have gone on vacation.
In short, because our government is playing Robbin Hood, we have relatives and families in my church who make a fraction of what we make, but live better lifestyles than we do.
Wow, you make ~$85,000-$100,000 pretax and you're struggling?? 20% goes to student loans? Whose fault is that?
I've put together my total expenditures for EVERYTHING, food, gas, rent, new clothes, Christmas gifts, etc. For 2011, I spent less than $24,000 in total expenditures with my girlfriend and me COMBINED. I live in a city of 250,000 people. I just bought a 46 inch LED TV a few months ago. How in the HELL are you not affording to live with $60,000 after taxes??
Life is pretty simple, people. I know inflation is out there, and it sucks, but if you HAVE to go to thrift stores (nothing wrong with them, but if you are being forced out of necessity to go there) then you're seriously doing something wrong with your money management. Absolutely no excuse.
Even with ~$10,000 in tax credits they get back, they're still making less than you and they have kids, and they're making it. How the fuck does that work? It's not the "system" because after you've gone through the "system", you still have more money than them.
It's probably because you're drinking $6 organic milk. I could easily make $40,000 and have a very nice lifestyle. After taxes and expenditures, I'd have about $10,000 per year left over at that income level. I wouldn't even need a working spouse.
Sorry, but families who struggle with two working spouses when they make nearly six-figures, I have no sympathy for. Like I said, I could support myself and my girlfriend at $30,000/year after taxes and have plenty of money (~$6,000) to go on vacation to anywhere in the world at least once a year. I don't make $30,000, but I know I could easily make it just looking at my expenditures and a $30,000 after tax income.
Remember, I spend $24k a year and I'm buying steaks, filling up a 20 mpg car, purchasing the newest electronics, and living in some of the more expensive apartments in my city. $85,000 minimum pretax?? I could retire in 15 years making that much. That'd be around $30,000-$35,000 in excess cash by my living standards...take that times 15 years and it's half a million dollars. Take that times capital appreciation and dividend income, and I wouldn't have to work.
Again, how can you possibly be struggling with that kind of income?