my life sucks
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Without know much more about it: Getting her life together means Getting rid of you.
Not comforting right now, but, you're probably better off.
Not comforting right now, but, you're probably better off.
LibertyEagle
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\RANT!!!!!!
My fiancée says she wants to take a break to get her life together so I assumed that i wasn't part of her life so i got mad and questioned her about it and now we are no longer engaged or talking. Therefore life sucks
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Her loss. It's hard right now, but you're better off to find this out about her NOW, than after you were married. Hang in there.
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Don't worry OP. She just didn't deserve ya. Keep fishin, you'll find a better one someday. 
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I have always thought that saying, "getting my life together", was a cop out. Anyone who cannot be honest and say, "I do not want to be with you", is not worth being with.
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I'm sorry for your loss man. If we lived close I'd buy you a beer. Watch the rebound though... don't come back to quick once you get over her... and you will. It probably doesn't feel like it now.
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Huh?
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\RANT!!!!!!
My fiancée says she wants to take a break to get her life together so I assumed that i wasn't part of her life so i got mad and questioned her about it and now we are no longer engaged or talking. Therefore life sucks
/ rant
getting her life together means "without you". means the same thing as "just want to be friends".
sorry dude.
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What if she actually meant she needed a break to think?
Sorry; I seem to be the only female with a reply so far.
As I read, I immediately wondered whether the questioning led to an argument. . . . Or was she simply being honest and saying, "I have finite energy; I have to take stock; I can't do it all at once" and I need breathing space?
Any whoo. My offspring keeps telling me, "that which does not kill us makes us stronger!" I encourage you to react positively and responsibly, and you'll come out ahead.
In the meantime, eh? . . . . . . . Bless you! :o
Sorry; I seem to be the only female with a reply so far.
As I read, I immediately wondered whether the questioning led to an argument. . . . Or was she simply being honest and saying, "I have finite energy; I have to take stock; I can't do it all at once" and I need breathing space?
Any whoo. My offspring keeps telling me, "that which does not kill us makes us stronger!" I encourage you to react positively and responsibly, and you'll come out ahead.
In the meantime, eh? . . . . . . . Bless you! :o
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I think it is a cop out, also.
I have never dumped anyone, but I have been dumped, and this line has been used on me... in my experience with other females, it generally means she wants some strange sex...i.e. from somewhere else. Sorry..it hurts real bad, I know. But Trust me, it is better to find out now that she cannot work out her own issues with you than 10 years down the road in a stressful situation where you need her.
I have never dumped anyone, but I have been dumped, and this line has been used on me... in my experience with other females, it generally means she wants some strange sex...i.e. from somewhere else. Sorry..it hurts real bad, I know. But Trust me, it is better to find out now that she cannot work out her own issues with you than 10 years down the road in a stressful situation where you need her.
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Oh crap, sorry! I was agreeing with you.
I was kind of expanding upon what you said but in a bad form.
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My buddy got dumped last week when his girl called him up and said that she had been diagnosed with ovarian cancer and she wanted to take a break so she could figure out what to do. He found out yesterday that "ovarian cancer" is a code word for another man's penis. So I guess it could be worse.
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holy crap! never come across that before. They're using Cancer now??
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A letter from a former lover:
Dear Mr Sideburns.
I am writing to tell you Im trapped in an alternate universe. I can never see you again. Dont try coming by my house, its guarded by stormtroopers and terminators. This is goodbye.
Dear Mr Sideburns.
I am writing to tell you Im trapped in an alternate universe. I can never see you again. Dont try coming by my house, its guarded by stormtroopers and terminators. This is goodbye.
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don't you mean hasta la vista?
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Do you have a dog you can kick?
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I've seen worse. A guy I know awoke one morning to find this post-it note on his dorm room door:
"Dear XXXX, We are done. I have naked pictures of you, and if you try to see me ever again, I will post them on facebook."
How very mature... (though in fairness, he was a jerk).
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I know that hurts:
I, being 16.5 years of age, have not had much experience with girls. The only one I have ever asked out said yes, three times, each making up a better excuse than the last time to not go out that weekend. Then she sicced her BF on me, said she wanted to be friends, but apparently texting each other once every other week is way too much. I sent her a text message on Friday, since literally every friend on speed dial was out of town except for one Mormon who continuously tries to convert me, and I needed to get out with some friends because my parents are divorcing. She didn't even respond. What is worse is the fact I don't care that she has done any of this, I am not angry at her at all. In order to get over her, I have even resorted to pulling out the characteristics of "love" (described as charity in KJV) in 1 Corinthians chapter 13, and making a list, praying over it and the bible, and checking off every night until I can finally not check off one and have freedom again, or hopefully I'll run into her and actually talk to her.
I, being 16.5 years of age, have not had much experience with girls. The only one I have ever asked out said yes, three times, each making up a better excuse than the last time to not go out that weekend. Then she sicced her BF on me, said she wanted to be friends, but apparently texting each other once every other week is way too much. I sent her a text message on Friday, since literally every friend on speed dial was out of town except for one Mormon who continuously tries to convert me, and I needed to get out with some friends because my parents are divorcing. She didn't even respond. What is worse is the fact I don't care that she has done any of this, I am not angry at her at all. In order to get over her, I have even resorted to pulling out the characteristics of "love" (described as charity in KJV) in 1 Corinthians chapter 13, and making a list, praying over it and the bible, and checking off every night until I can finally not check off one and have freedom again, or hopefully I'll run into her and actually talk to her.
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