My dad's cancer

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Your Dad came to my mind today. So I began to pray for him. How is he doing? How are you?
 
Deborah K said:
Your Dad came to my mind today. So I began to pray for him. How is he doing? How are you?
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He's been in the hospital. He is at the point where his mind is just not there. We were able to bring him home a few days ago, but he just seemed like a zombie. They took him off all of these prescription meds he was on(effexer, lipitor,etc.) to get his liver back to normal. The days he was at home my mom couldn't get him to eat or take medicine, and he didn't want to use the oxygen tank they sent over. My mom brought him back to the hospital last night. The doctors said there was fluid in one of his lungs and that the cancer is spreading there. At this point, we're not expecting him to live much longer.

I feel like I failed him. Maybe if I had tried to push harder for the alternative treatment, but that is hard for me. I believe I have pdd-nos(borderline aspergers). Shyness is unbelievably bad with me. Confidence also.

Right now, all I want for him is to not die in pain. Im sorry that I failed you dad:(
 
BW2112 said:
He's been in the hospital. He is at the point where his mind is just not there. We were able to bring him home a few days ago, but he just seemed like a zombie. They took him off all of these prescription meds he was on(effexer, lipitor,etc.) to get his liver back to normal. The days he was at home my mom couldn't get him to eat or take medicine, and he didn't want to use the oxygen tank they sent over. My mom brought him back to the hospital last night. The doctors said there was fluid in one of his lungs and that the cancer is spreading there. At this point, we're not expecting him to live much longer.

I feel like I failed him. Maybe if I had tried to push harder for the alternative treatment, but that is hard for me. I believe I have pdd-nos(borderline aspergers). Shyness is unbelievably bad with me. Confidence also.

Right now, all I want for him is to not die in pain. Im sorry that I failed you dad:(
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Oh no, don't think that. You didn't fail your Dad. You weren't in control of his health, don't try to assume responsibility for something you had no control over. I know how difficult it is to stand by helplessly and watch a loved one suffer. But you should not burden your heart with irrational guilt. I don't think your Dad would want that. I will continue to pray for his peace and comfort, and for yours too. hugs
 
I would do whatever the regular docs recommend AND do the natuaral stuff as well.

Latrile (apricot seeds)
Essiac Tea
Mary Jane AND
Green Super foods ex: Emerald Balance (saved my life) NOT Cancer though or Boku Super food is stronger for cancer.



Try these sites: www.herbalhealer.com (Mariah McCain....cant hurt to contact her) & for Essiac Tea
www.naturalnews.com

www.SGNNutrition.com for Emerald Balance or Vitacost.com where I buy it from.

Good Luck.

Change His Diet and Keep him away from Sugar & Carbohydrates which FEED Cancer!
 
Cancer thrives in persons who's bloodstream is acidic. You want to lower the acid level and make your blood alkaline. I actually clean commercial pools for a living, and though I am not a Doctor, I do have a good understanding of chemistry. If you use this product, it will raise your fathers pH level, and make his blood alkaline. The tumor will shrink away till he is in complete remission. It will look like some kind of miracle. :)
 
Deborah K said:
Oh no, don't think that. You didn't fail your Dad. You weren't in control of his health, don't try to assume responsibility for something you had no control over. I know how difficult it is to stand by helplessly and watch a loved one suffer. But you should not burden your heart with irrational guilt. I don't think your Dad would want that. I will continue to pray for his peace and comfort, and for yours too. hugs
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Thank you! Its hard for me not to feel guilt. If I hadn't been so shy, and pushed harder a year ago for alternative treatments, maybe my dad wouldn't be getting ready to pass away. As I type this, he is on our couch, proping himself up because he had trouble breathing in bed. Hospice is coming in tomorrow.

This is just really hard for me, my family, and especially my mom. She told me this year to just go and buy the things I wanted for Christmas and she'd pay me back. She is having a hard time going to a store and seeing families tomgether that are happy. It breaks my heart to hear that from her. And to be honest, I don't care about any Christmas presents. I would give just about everything up if it meant my dad would be cured of his cancer and be healthy again. But right now, with the pain and suffering he is in, I just hope it ends soon. I hope that he just goes to sleep, and he just never wakes up. He knows I love him. I've told him.

I just hate this. Why must it happen on Christmas?
 
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brenton said:
sorry you and your family are going through this. i don't know how no one's mentioned this yet, but i feel very strongly that cannabis oil is absolutely a cure for cancer. documentary on how it cures people of cancer called "run from the cure"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0psJhQHk_GI

Run From The Cure: How Cannabis Cures Cancer And Why No One Knows

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0psJhQHk_GIhttp://www.cannabisculture.com/articles/5169.html
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From the research I've done the hemp oil works in many cases. At best it will cure him and at worst it will at least provide relief. All you need is a pound of really good quality indica marijuana for one full treatment. Making the oil is not difficult. My wife's aunt has cancer and I feel I'll eventually have to attempt this myself.
 
There are plenty of natural treatments for Cancer. But even then it's not always enough. On saying that, never give up hope and remaining positive for the whole family is necessary if you are going to beat it. (easier said than done, I know).

Some things I would look into is.

1) Hash oil (cannabis oil) - if you can get some medicinal marijuana in this form and you injest the stuff. Supposed to help with most forms of cancer, even brain tumours. If it's lung cancer, I believe smoking marijuana can be beneficial too.

2) High doses of Vitamin C through IV drip. -- I read about somebody using this method on the dailypaul and they had terminal cancer. He had a complete recovery.

3) Water fasting -- I'm not sure about this one and I would suggest this as a last choice in the case of cancer as it can either totally destroy the Cancer or I have heard of Cancer spreading more rapidly in some cases. Fasting works by first eating all the glucose in your system, then burning excess fats and turning it into energy and *finally* after lengthy fasts the bad and damaged cells (including cancereous) will be broken down and used for energy. In essence, your body does a clear house and removes all the junk.

I personally try to water fast atleast a week every year for cleansing, it's not for the weak minded.

Tips:

If your dad does decide to go the chemo route, just be aware it *will* damage healthy cells as well as destroy the bad ones. So I have read loading up with vitamins before chemo is something you should do to help. Also, the flora may be wiped out in his system during this period. I advise a good pro-biotic such as Kefir (which is extremely healthy).

There are tons of anti-cancerous foods. Some help prevent the cancer from entering your blood stream. Some reduce tumors. Do some googling and you will be surprised at what you find. It may take a complete overhaul of his diet, but it's well worth it.
 
amonasro said:
From the research I've done the hemp oil works in many cases. At best it will cure him and at worst it will at least provide relief. All you need is a pound of really good quality indica marijuana for one full treatment. Making the oil is not difficult. My wife's aunt has cancer and I feel I'll eventually have to attempt this myself.
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Just make sure it's actually proper hash oil and not industrial hemp oil. As it's the THC (psychoactive ingredient) that is the cancer killer and this is found in high quantities in Cannabis/Marijuana.

Laws against Cannabis I find offensive. I've never smoked it, but something so beneficial and totally harmless health wise I find disgraceful that governments would ban it to "protect" the public.
 
Hope your family member recovers, people on this site are giving your family options and that's what matters. My thoughts and prayers to your family.
 
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Sending some heartfelt thoughts and prayers your way and your family's way right now, BW. You're an incredibly strong person to deal with what you're dealing with right now.
 
BuddyRey said:
Sending some heartfelt thoughts and prayers your way and your family's way right now, BW. You're an incredibly strong person to deal with what you're dealing with right now.
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I don't really feel like I'm strong, but thank you. Also, my name is Brandon. I really don't like my username.
 
This morning, my dad passed away. He wasn't in pain, and he went peacefully. I was able to talk to him while he was sleeping. I was able to tell him how much I love him, an hour or two before he passed. I kneeled and prayed to God that he passes peacefully and painlessly in the bedroom. Then an hour or two later, my mom told me of his passing.

Thank you to everyone who gave me advice. Though Im afraid that by the time I asked, it was really to late.

I want to say that every life is sacred. Please don't wish death on anyone, or celebrate someone's death, even if its someone who is corrupt. They're still a human being, and their life is as sacred as anyone elses. When Ted Kennedy passed, I was glad. I regret feeling that way. May he rest in peace, as well as someone like Kim Jong Il. I always say rest in peace to someone who has died. Thats all I have to say right now.

Thank you to everyone here.
 
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Deepest condolences.. I'm sorry to hear this was all too late. I hope one day soon cancer will be a thing of the past.
 
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