I don't want to get into an argument... but my guess is you have no idea what you're talking about. Did you go to an Ivy League school for any of your degrees? If not, then why are you giving out advice as if you did?
I got an undergrad degree
and master's degree from Ivy League schools. I'm not saying that makes me special. My entire point is that it does
not make me special. If more people realized this, we wouldn't have parents and kids going hundreds of thousands of dollars into debt for an education they could have gotten 10 times cheaper at their state university. It does, however, make me qualified to speak from experience on this issue.
Graduate school in the hard sciences in the Ivy League is very different than the undergraduate scene. There are not very many of the "privileged elite" in grad school in the Ivy League. There are mostly just regular science nerds, same as you will find at any other grad school.
In fact, I would venture to guess that most people (not you torchbearer, as I'm sure you know better) who talk about the "Ivy League" couldn't list the member schools. People want to go to an Ivy League school before they even figure out what they want to study. They don't even know who will be teaching them, much less what they will be learning. But it doesn't matter because it's... drum roll...
The Ivy League!
For all of the bitching and moaning that goes on in this forum about how the MSM brainwashes people, there certainly is a lot of love in this thread for myths about the "Ivy League" which are simply the result of relentless brand promotion by the Ivy League schools themselves and have very little to do with the quality of the education students receive there. Not that it's not a great education, because it is, but you can get just as good an education from any number of other public or private universities in this country. For a lot less money.
And that's about all I have to say about that. To the OP, good luck. And keep an open mind.