Who are they talking about in these scriptures containing the word "traditions" Kevin? Jesus the disciples and Paul are all talking about and to the Pharisee Jews of that time who continued in their OT traditions such as washing rituals and ceremonies that had to be done under the curse of the Old Mosaic Law. They are not speaking to the Christians--only the Jews still practicing their old testament traditions in place of believing that Jesus fulfilled that old law to obtain righteous before God. Jesus, His disciples and Paul are all telling you that the practice of "works, traditions, rituals and ceremonies of the Old Mosaic Law by those Jews to obtain righteousness are a curse because Jesus fulfilled that law. This is what you are not understanding clearly. That there are *TWO LAWS*--*TWO COVENANTS* AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THESE TWO. One being the Old Mosaic Law of dead works and traditions and the other the New Law and Covenant of Faith and the Christian traditions that we are supposed to keep and "hold fast" to and do as the apostle Paul and Jesus tell us.
You are not understanding the difference between these two very polar opposite Laws/Covenants. This is why you're having problems reconciling NT scripture. Because Paul is not contradicting himself when he tells us to not do one tradition and to "hold fast" and do another tradition.
This is why then that the apostle Paul tells us this: 2 Thessalonians 3:6
Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.
Paul is telling the difference between Christian tradition and the OT Jewish traditions there. Do you see that?
Then here again Paul tells us which traditions we are to stand fast and hold on to--being our Christian traditions and not the OT Jewish ones:
2 Thessalonians 2:15
Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle.
Mark 7
Then came together unto him the Pharisees, and certain of the scribes, which came from Jerusalem. And when they saw some of his disciples eat bread with defiled, that is to say, with unwashen, hands, they found fault. For the Pharisees, and all the Jews, except they wash their hands oft, eat not, holding the tradition of the elders. ...
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Matthew 15:2
Why do thy disciples transgress the tradition of the elders? for they wash not their hands when they eat bread.
Matthew 15:3
But he answered and said unto them, Why do ye also transgress the commandment of God by your tradition?
Matthew 15:6
And honour not his father or his mother, he shall be free. Thus have ye made the commandment of God of none effect by your tradition.
Mark 7:3
For the Pharisees, and all the Jews, except they wash their hands oft, eat not, holding the tradition of the elders.
Mark 7:5
Then the Pharisees and scribes asked him, Why walk not thy disciples according to the tradition of the elders, but eat bread with unwashen hands?
Mark 7:8
For laying aside the commandment of God, ye hold the tradition of men, as the washing of pots and cups: and many other such like things ye do.
Mark 7:9
And he said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of God, that ye may keep your own tradition.
Mark 7:13
Making the word of God of none effect through your tradition, which ye have delivered: and many such like things do ye.
Galatians 1:14
And profited in the Jews' religion above many my equals in mine own nation, being more exceedingly zealous of the traditions of my fathers.
Colossians 2:8
Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
2 Thessalonians 2:15
Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle.
2 Thessalonians 3:6
Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.
1 Peter 1:18
Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;