Is piercing a baby's ears "abuse"/violation of NAP?

Evidence of the horrible abuse of piercing my daughter's ears. She can barely sleep...too much psycholigical trauma.

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It would appear you put clothes on her, too, and she obviously didn't ask you to. You monster.
 
uhhh....circumcising a female removes her clitoris which removes her ability to have an orgasm. Circumcising a male does NOT remove his ability to have an orgasm.

There are different classifications of FGM. Yes, you are right, in the more severe cases. However, it is the mild cases of which I am referring to. Regardless, I believe that every child, male or female, has a right to unaltered genitals, and I find it incredibly unjust that males, by law, are denied that right. It may not remove the ability for a male to orgasm, but it can make it much more of a chore to reach.

And for those who say that they would not be able to handle full pleasure, it is not so cut and dry. The foreskin, with all of its nerve endings, acts as a pedal, so intact men have a much better ability of controlling their orgasms than circed men do.

What if I go on a long backpacking trip and go a week or so without showering?

Female genitals have infinitely more folds and crevices; and it can get dirty too if it is not washed. Why aren't we removing labias? I don't understand the disparity between the sexes.
 
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Health, aesthetics, tradition, and I just don't see much merit to the opposing arguments.

Good sir, the position you hold in term of principle is rather precarious.

Ignoring the false health argument, the reductio ad absurdum of your position is that it is acceptable to alter your child in any manner you see fit if tradition and aesthetics allow/demand it. Your argument is a variation on the tired old appeal to authority fallacy. In this case, everybody else is doing it so it is OK. This argument holds no water whatsoever in terms of valid reasoning as I am sure you are well aware. One either respects the right of others or they do not. There is no degree where this practice is concerned. This is the first essential question at hand.

If it was your tradition and aesthetic to bind your daughter's feet in the Chinese way would you do it for the sake of her having tiny little feet? Would you relegate her to a life of nearly helpless immobility for the sake of the expectations of those around you?

The second essential question here is this: where, precisely, on this continuum of the physical alteration of a non-attaining child do acts pass from the realm of acceptable prerogative to the unacceptable and perhaps even criminal? If one cannot answer that question unarguably, then I would suggest one holds no valid basis for so modifying a child. The small raft of justifications thus far offered in this thread do not even begin to cut the mustard.

I would therefore end by reiterating the two essential questions at hand:
  1. Do you respect the rights of the individual, regardless of age? If you feel age bears on this, then you must demonstrate how.
  2. Are you able to draw and justify that bright line in the sand against which no argument will stand?
 
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uhhh....circumcising a female removes her clitoris which removes her ability to have an orgasm. Circumcising a male does NOT remove his ability to have an orgasm.

In this sense the female circumcision is really not that at all. It is mutilation that removes certain aspects of the sexual function which is done with the expressed purpose of removing desire. The woman should want no man but her husband and damn if we will allow any woman the least chance of running off with the pool boy.

What those imbeciles seem to fail to grasp is that women so modified no longer want their husbands either. But I guess that matters not so long as hubby has a warm, if somewhat dry-ish, hole into which to place Sir Willie. Painful? Woman's burden.

One has to marvel at the fathomless hubris, cruelty, and rank stupidity of the empire mind. Fuck what the individual wants if it goes against the mandates of the group. If we are going to live in misery and servitude, we will be damned if you will not!

Humanity has always been its own worst enemy and greatest threat. I sadly report that there is no reason on the most distant horizon to believe this will ever change.

Pray for a meteor strike. It seems the only real hope for our future. 1/2 :)
 
If it was your tradition and aesthetic to bind your daughter's feet in the Chinese way would you do it for the sake of her having tiny little feet? Would you relegate her to a life of nearly helpless immobility for the sake of the expectations of those around you?

Piercing a little girl's ears or circumcising a boy do not leave them impaired for life. It does not leave them with crippled bones, lifelong pain, immobility and is not a "major" procedure. Binding feet is akin to female circumcision in that it mutilates a persons body and causes them lifelong pain, suffering and impairment. The difference is as big as between "I'm going to discipline my child and give them an open handed spank on the bottom" and "I'm going to discipline my child and shock them with a cattle prod".
 
I'm not in any place to tell someone they're wrong or a bad person for wanting to circumcise their children. I can only tell them that, as someone who was circumcised myself, I highly regret the fact that it was done to me against my will, and if it were up to me, I would never have consented to it. Even though I know that my parents probably wouldn't have considered it to begin with if they hadn't been advised to by a person in authority (shades of the Millgram Experiment, IMO), I still carry some resentment against them for ever signing off on such a procedure.
 
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When I was a little child it took 3 adults to hold me down for a vaccine I feel like my right to consent was grossly over looked. I still feel like I was violated. I think it was unethical as hell. Medical personnel would not hold down an adult and force them to take a vaccine why do they do it to children. Even my mom feels bad about having done that and knows I was trying with all my might to defend my body
 
I'm not in any place to tell someone they're wrong or a bad person for wanting to circumcise their children. I can only tell them that, as someone who was circumcised myself, I highly regret the fact that it was done to me against my will, and if it were up to me, I would never have consented to it. Even though I know that my parents probably wouldn't have considered it to begin with if they hadn't been advised to by a person in authority (shades of the Millgram Experiment, IMO), I still carry some resentment against them for ever signing off on such a procedure.

I honestly think you're the first person I've ever known to have resentment about being circumcised. Not criticizing you, just a little surprised. I had it done, and from a purely aesthetic perspective, I'm glad. I don't remember if it hurt or not, so I can't criticize my parent about that. For me it's just a non-issue.
 
Piercing a little girl's ears or circumcising a boy do not leave them impaired for life.

Two things. First, I doubt you have any idea what purpose the foreskin and labia serve, judging by the implicit discounting you give their presence through your similar discounting of the significance of their removal. They are definitely there for some reason and I doubt the reasons constitute "mistakes" on the part of the designer. To assume this is to claim to have the designer's knowledge and intentions tied to one's sleeve, which appears to me to smack of astronomical levels of hubris and presumption.

Second, you appear to be avoiding the questions I posed. So let me state them yet again:

  1. Do you respect the rights of the individual, regardless of age?
  2. Are you able to draw and justify that bright line in the sand separating good from bad practice and against which no argument will stand?
If you do not want to answer, that is fine, but answering with nonsequiturs seems disingenuous at best. I am assuming you to be far and away better than that, judging by some of your other posts.


It does not leave them with crippled bones, lifelong pain, immobility and is not a "major" procedure.

Is this the bright line in the sand? What defines "major procedure"? The strong implication here is that a minor procedure is acceptable regardless of nature. How do you square this with the principle of not violating the rights of another, or do you hold that this is not a violation? If not, why not? Once again, the line in the sand is implied, but you are yet to explicitly show where it is and why the chosen position is valid and void of the arbitrary.

Binding feet is akin to female circumcision in that it mutilates a persons body and causes them lifelong pain, suffering and impairment.

Are you drawing the line at mutilation? One could inflict hideous pain and suffering on a person without causing any physical mutilation whatsoever. Would that be acceptable, then?

Still, I see no treatment of the question of rights. If someone tried to pierce my ears against my will, I would probably injure them with great cruelty, drawing upon my many years of training to serve up one hell of an ass whooping. Knowing this, how likely are you to attempt to pierce my ears against my will? Unless you are a complete idiot, which I strongly doubt to be the case, you now know to refrain from acting if such an impulse overtakes you, correct? Good. Perhaps more significantly, you may also feel that to attempt to pierce my ears against my expressed objection is also morally wrong, indicating your proper grounding in moral principle... at least to those who are capable of expressing such objections. But what of a baby? They are incapable, yet I'd bet money I do not have that were they able to understand the pain to be inflicted upon them beforehand, they would object in the only ways babies are capable of so doing. What, then, separates the prerogatives of the infant from those of the adult in terms of the most fundamental of natural and inborn human rights? It is merely the power to object? That would reek of might making right, opening a huge can of worms. Another way of asking is: why do we presume a baby will not object or that their objections, such as they may be, are invalid whereas we do not do this with adults?

For example, imagine a girl so hot that you would sell your mother to a whore house just to have her once. Imagine she lapses into a coma for some reason. No trauma.... she just dropped off and it looks like she will be remaining that way for the foreseeable future. Now imagine you are alone with her in the hospital room and you KNOW that nobody will be bothering you. You're looking at her and your helmet is about to explode with desire. All you have to so is get on top and let Mr. Monkey sing his song. Would doing that be morally unjustifiable? If so, why? She is offering no objection and your act mutilates her in no way whatsoever. Is it OK or is it not?

Now, before you answer with nonsequiturs, please try to answer the question as asked. You have, thus far, not done the best job of this, which indicates to me that your position is weak, you know it somewhere deep inside, are unable to give the answer that does not exist, and are mildly flailing in hopes of misdirecting the discourse, which in this case will never work because I am like a pit bull. Once I get to humping your leg, there's no stopping me until I am satisfied, one way or another. :)

The difference is as big as between "I'm going to discipline my child and give them an open handed spank on the bottom" and "I'm going to discipline my child and shock them with a cattle prod".


Ooooh... poorly chosen example, if mutilation happens to be your standard for drawing lines. Shock devices do not mutilate, though they smart like the devil... kind of similar to the way an ear smarts when driving a stud through it or lopping off the foreskin or labia of an infant without anesthetic. :)

I think you should give this some thought and answer the questions, not so much to please me but for the sake of clarifying your own understanding of the subject, the demonstrations of which thus far indicate a distinct lack thereof.

Hell, if I am wrong I would like to see how and why so that I may modify my position based on an improved understanding of the world. Seriously.

Thus far your responses have constituted appeals to authority and proof by assertion. You're batting 000, but I'm in your corner rooting for you! :) :) :)
 
When did I say mutilation is where I draw the line? I was saying that foot binding is mutilation and can't be compared to piercing a child's ears...
 
When I was a little child it took 3 adults to hold me down for a vaccine I feel like my right to consent was grossly over looked. I still feel like I was violated. I think it was unethical as hell. Medical personnel would not hold down an adult and force them to take a vaccine why do they do it to children. Even my mom feels bad about having done that and knows I was trying with all my might to defend my body

Wow... this jolted a memory back to fore. I had the same thing when I got vaccinated by one Dr. Riker in Flushing, Queens, NYC, NY. I was furious at everyone - the doctor, the nurse, my sister, and mom. I felt so violated I almost could have spit on them all. Seething, boiling anger at the disrespect they showed me by trespassing against my will. Sure they meant well, but that meant nothing at the time and as I think back on it I still feel they were wrong, as much as I love them both, may they each RIP.

The same when I was sick and mom and my aunt Aina held me down to put ear drops in. All I wanted was to situate myself better and they took it as fight and forced me still. I was furious about that as well and my sense of trust was damaged by the act. I have never taken kindly to trespass, nor am I ever likely to soften on this. In fact, the older I get, the less tolerant I am and I let people know they are on thin ice with me early on when I see shit coming down the pike. I bow to nobody.
 
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