This represents the defective one-way cartel capitalism that is the main part of the problem. IS IT the record companies' music? IS distributing a digital copy (to oneself or others) apart from the corporate channel actually stealing the original music? No, it isn't, or there is at least disagreement on both these points adamantly assumed by the poster. The idea it is 'stealing' is the product of the government subsidy called 'copyright' music publishers use to perpetually monopolize not just distribution, but all ideas about ownership and marketing of the products.
Historically, piracy was understood to be kidnapping and murder on the high seas. If most of us don't construe sharing computing files as being the same thing as kidnapping and murder on the high seas, who really benefits from the negative spin term other than certain self-serving publishers? If the market has chosen to tolerate file sharing, how does it benefit from having its choices browbeaten?
In the one-way corporate copyright model, only the business seems to ever get to 'own' anything, and only their notions as to how a profit gets made matters. Even if a copy gets purchased, the buyer is deemed to have no rights to freely share what they purchased. The worth of free individuals creating buzz and branding for the item by burning copies for others is discounted by the traditional publisher, even though this word of mouth marketing is arguably much more valuable than the copies themselves.
In a real two-way market, there are no subsidies creating such artificial one way monopolies, and the rights of both producers and consumers to own, distribute and promote get respected. The music companies are trying to perpetuate their horse and buggy exclusive distribution business model upon a post-digital era, share-based landscape, and it isn't working. Neither will criminalizing consumer choices by calling them 'stealing' (or other self-serving corporate epithets) prevail. In the end, sharing is one form of owning, and we get to have property rights, too.