I think many of the statements made in this thread reflect exactly what is wrong with the people of america, including us. I am not in a situation where I can provide you with any assistance. I dont have a job, stuck on food stamps, and not collecting any unemployment benefits. Since I have no children, and Im white, I am not eligible for any other forms of government freebies. Suffice to say, my situation is probably as screwed as yours, but I am lucky enough (no offense to you about your family) that I have family members willing to help me out tremendously.
But as it stands, comments made that you should go dumpster diving instead of trying to give you a hand up arent helpful. Neither are statements about going to church. Churches are there to survive on peoples charity, so when it comes time that we need their charity, my experience has taught me that they are no where to be found. Charity isnt always about church, however. Its not always about money. We dont have much left. But we can grow food and make exchanges without money. Working directly for food without using money (well, the ghost of money or fiat currency) to facilitate the exchange of services for goods. It would make me feel better about myself if I truly believed that I could tell you that "someone generous will help you out", but I dont honestly believe that statement. People have become dependant on govt handouts and selfish about the handouts we receive. Of course, we did pay for them, mostly by inflation, and now are unable to deny the "favors" handed to us by those with the power to issue currency.
I am sorry that I am not able to help you out in any way shape or form in the longer term. I wish I could say things are going to get better. I wish I had more confidence in people. Im not singling out our forum members as I believe we behave much better than those who are far more selfish than us. I think that people in general have tightened their purse strings to hold on to the few coins they have left, if any at all. Im not going to say any "prayers" for you for two reasons. #1, I dont believe in that shit. #2, I have no idea if you are religious or not and dont intend to offend you by pushing my religious (well, lack thereof) on you which either reinforces any beliefs you may have, or you may find to be offensive. So no prayers from me out of respect to all possible beliefs.
I dont know if we are going to make it through this situation. When push comes to shove, if you find yourself out on the streets, I'll probably be right next to you in the same situation. I wish you long term luck, but I think even that is a resource that is drying up and evaporating before our eyes.
Hopefully, some of our other more positive forum members can at least provide words of encouragement for ALL the people in our situation.