I didn't say to say "what are you stupid?"
I said to say "Santorum wanted to fuck the troops (as do the others). Do you want to fuck the troops?"
It's finding common ground and giving them a good kick in the pants to show them that if they care about having a respected military, "American exceptionalism," and leaving their grandkids with any semblance of a well functioning economy, then they may have made a poor choice in the past.
We're not questioning their values or logic - in fact we're recognizing that their values and logic are sound. We're just curing their ignorance (which is not the same thing as stupidity). Certainly some people can be "cured" in different ways, and I support your efforts to do what you think is the most effective.
But I think that this type of video that doesn't say "fuck you" but says that Obama and Romney are the ones doing the fucking to your vaunted "troops" is a great way to jostle people from their misinformed quiescence regardless of their personal sensitivities.