Question- do you ever intend to buy a home at all (it is fine if you do not)? If so, at what point or market conditions would you do so?
It depends on my income, if I made a million a year, it wouldn't matter much.
Where I live today, I'd like to spend less than $300K, period.
If I were to move to a less crowded area (which I have considered), I'd like to spend less than $100K.
I'm very spoiled and naive, so what I want has nothing to do with what I will get.
As for your list of the expenses of home ownership, yes, those are real. But you are not avoiding those by renting. You are paying them for somebody else- your landlord. He is passing all those costs on to you in the rent you pay- plus a profit for him.
Again, not if the market doesn't allow it.
My parents & friends are exactly in that situation.
My parents even have a friend who bought a gigantic house for $300K in foreclosureville, and they're breaking even on rent vs mortgage (which means they'll be in deficit after taxes, fees, labor, and repairs).
I know apartments with HOA fees that can't be rented out because they ask for $500 above the market, and they've not been rented out for over a year (so instead of losing $6,000 by paying their own HOA, they lost an additional 18-24K by not renting it out)
Some people will say 'if you're in such a bind, sell it', sounds easy and probably smart, but nobody wants to lose money upfront, and many aren't willing to accept that they'll lose more. It's hard enough for many to accept that they've already lost money, so it's harder for some to believe they can lose even more.
Why not keep the profit for yourself as well as gain a share in a tangible asset? It may be less liquid than gold but is still a tangible asset you can hold, keep, and later resell.
I'm not a gold bug, I'm a utilities and food bug before I am a housing bug, before I'm a gold bug. I DO NOT value metals over housing.
"Why not keep that profit to yourself"?
That's exactly what I do by not leasing a car, or taking car loans, I buy depreciated cars. That's exactly what I do by buying movies, not renting them.
I'd do the same with houses if I could afford it and understand it more.
I am not against buying a house, I'm just not fit and ready for it myself, for now.
You can't get that from renting. Of course if you do not intend to stay in a property long then renting makes more sense. But since you know "exactly" what the housing market I guess I will look like a fool in three more years when my mortgage goes away, my effective disposable income goes up by about a third from losing that expense, and you will continue to pay rent while I have a valuable asset. But that was my decision and I will have to live with the consequences. Oh well. Things could be worse.
I've looked like a fool many times in my life, and I only make decisions with the worst possible scenario in mind. I remember buying my car a few years ago. Everybody said I paid $2000 for car that's worth zero. I was prepared to take that when I bought it, you have to live with the decisions you make no matter who is right, you ultimately have to justify it to yourself, because it's you living, and your money.