I'm a social conservative and a libertarian.
That means in my own life I have socially conservative views. As in I don't drink or smoke and think those are wrong. I think perverted lifestyles are wrong. I think chivalry is good and that gender norms are important. However, as a libertarian I recognize that these are all just my own personal values and not things to be forced on other. It is better to influence by example than through the law. I can encourage people to live by such values and I can choose to not be associated with those who do not follow those values.
Beyond that one compromise I could possibly see is that you don't make laws against certain behaviors, but you could use the local government to perhaps promote the values. I don't know how exactly, but perhaps by teaching the values in schools or have community events that encourage them and such, all without actually making behavior that doesn't harm a non-consenting party illegal.
I'm a longtime Ron Paul supporter and I consider myself a cross between a paleoconservative and a libertarian.
I don't understand why some people here view social conservatism with near contempt.
I'm not saying you're guilty of showing contempt, but I want to highlight something you brought up in the above post. You said: "I think perverted lifestyles are wrong. I think chivalry is good and that gender norms are important. However, as a libertarian I recognize that these are all just my own personal values and not things to be forced on other."
What if we were to apply this to other issues ... say, stealing or murder? For example: "I think stealing and murder is wrong. However, as a libertarian I recognize that these are all just my own personal values and not things to be forced on others."
Or another example: "I think rape is wrong. However, as a libertarian I recognize that these are all just my own personal values and not things to be forced on others."
Now I understand there are philosophical issues involved in the abortion controversy, but the bottom line is social conservatives aren't just foaming at the mouth idiots. They have a legitimate argument -- one, in fact, held by both Ron and his son: they view abortion as being murder since it ends a human life.
Gay marriage is a different issue, one I won't get into here. Suffice to say, I would be happy just to see these issues and most others returned to a state level, and get the federal government out of our lives. But again, I get the impression on here that many simply dismiss social conservatives out of hand, and I think that's doing a disservice to the liberty movement. One can hold a proper view of the U.S. Constitution and the role of government and still be a social conservative.