I have no desire, nor the authority, to tell you what to do with your money. I realize this and I wouldn't want to. I'm just making my point and speaking my mind. It is your money and you are correct that you should do what you want with it. That is what freedom is all about.
So believe me, I don't disagree with you on that point, but why become so flustered (and I'm sorry if I'm misreading you, but that's what it seems like you're becoming, particularly based on your use of CAPS for certain words) and make a statement like "for those who do not want to participate then simply DON'T" but then say "stop telling people not to do this like those who are not interested have equal say in the matter" if you recognize that ultimately it is an individual decision? Those who want to participate will and those who don't, as you say, won't.
But to continue to exercise my freedom of speech I have a feeling that if you were to ask Ron and Carol what would they rather have on their anniversary, flowers or campaign donations, they would reply "campaign donations."
But absolutely, it is your decision so do what you want. I'm just speaking my mind.
Oh and by the way, sadly every decision or idea will have its detractors. That's a fact of life. It's something everyone has to get used to or they're going to make themselves upset for no good reason.