i think this fits in this thread- vicariously.
Today, I worked at my family's diner at lunch. (this is in alexandria, Louisiana- the last state to surrender to the northern aggressors, and some parts of the state haven't surrendered)
I waited on a table with two brothers. One was about 13, the other 10.
They came to eat on their own, they were very civil and polite, they ordered, they ate, they asked for their check, paid and left a tip. went on their way. As adults.
-lesson.
Our culture is different, and independent. Family is first. These nothern pricks start shit- they will regret it.