The Divorce papers are Filed...Why Do People Get Married?

coastie

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...Let the games begin.


Anyone got about $8k laying around so I can get a lawyer worth a fuck?


I'm about to get railed in court, ya'll. She's intentionally doing this now, when my hours dropped to 10/week, unemployment is fucking with me for some reason, and I still haven't got paid. I got no money at all, except for the 42.77 in my pocket for gas for the next two weeks(I drive a civic:p).

She milked our account and put into another I don't have access to. Perfectly legal, believe it or not.

She hit me three times, and ripped my shirt right off me, cutting my back pretty deeply with her fingernails yesterday. I didn't touch her. I should've put her ass in jail. The main reason I didn't call is because she has mild epilepsy, and it was almost a guarantee they would've tased her crazy, violent ass. It probably would've killed her.

So, once again, I don't make the right decision to protect my wife. And now I'll get fucked for it. That would've been an ace in the hole for me. No, I do not wish her dead, but for her to get locked up like that would've epically helped me out.


Her dad is financing the most corrupt scumbag piece of shit divorce lawyer money can by.

You see, my wife has probably several mental illnesses, and one of them the symptoms are pathological lying and manipulation. Her dad new about what she did last time, and never batted an eye. I deserved getting cheated on, I guess. Now I see who calibrated her moral compass(he's cheated on her mom, too).:rolleyes:

When my wife first started taking those fucking pills, she never told her family. She would sleep from the moment she got home from work(if she even went) until the next morning. My kids sat here for YEARS, alone and fending for themselves while I was stationed elsewhere.

So, when the family started asking why she was having so many seizures suddenly and sleeping all of the time - it was because I wasn't doing enough to help her around the house, and she was just soooo exhausted.:eek: Get fucking real. I was the ONLY one doing anything around the house(still am). Hell, to this day the bitch can't even be bothered to sweep the front porch, or wash her car, etc. You should see our bathroom counter. I just cleaned it last week and there's at least 50lbs of her shit on top of it now.

Nope, couldn't have been the pills she was taking -- it was me. Interesting that her family bought that shit, because I was not even living in my house at the time but for one weekend a month. I'll let you take a wild guess as to what I was doing that whole weekend...

She's barely had her license back a year. I've been the sole driver for most our marriage because of her condition.

I short toured 2 different units back to back to get stationed here where she was, all for a documented mental issue on her part.

There are at least 4 incidents in 2 different states while we were married when neighbors had to take our kids from the house because my wife was flipping out, just couldn't handle doing it on her own. It makes sense now why she flew "home" every time my ship left the dock. She needed mommy to handle it for her, and she still does.



But oh well, fuck it. I give up. I don't have the money to fight her. She's being especially cunty as of late.She's such a shallow, hateful, vindictive, and soulless person. I really feel sorry for the next guy she ends up with, while at the same time hope he blows a load of herpes into her, or something else she can never get rid of.

I found a place to go for pretty cheap, but after she destroyed over $1000 worth of my clothes by throwing them all into the disgusting curbside trash can, and milked the bank acct, now I don't have the money to move in.Fucking great. It's supposed to be cold here this winter, not looking forward to living in my car.


Would've.Should've.Could've. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife.


Fuck being married, I'll never do it again. Now I guess it's time for me to go play STD roulette out there as well, that's just fucking great.:mad: Fuck, I'll even have to settle on 5's and below, the 9's and 10's I could pull don't want anything to do with broke dudes.:o


Thanks, pillow.
 
If you do manage to come up with 8k, sounds like your money would be better spent on a hit man than a lawyer, and yes, you should've put her ass in jail.
 
If you do manage to come up with 8k, sounds like your money would be better spent on a hit man than a lawyer, and yes, you should've put her ass in jail.


No hit man, and that aint kewl even saying that shit bro...
 
My ex wife had borderline.

I've had full custody of the kids for 10 years now.

There's just no saving people with that.


You're right, there's not any saving her. It seems to go away at times, but ALWAYS comes back the week before her period. It's hormonal. Both the seizures and the attitude start then. The attitude usually doesn't stay. It was much, much worse when on SSRI/SNRI's....she's been off those for almost three years now. The effects seem to have stayed. I think those things really fucked her up in her head.
 
I don't know how far off this is, but it sounds to me like you should consider a long-term plan to be fully prepared for when your kids can declare who they want to live with. At least until you're able to step away, gather yourself and get your job/finances together.

Put in the best fight you can. Document everything. When you get back to court it may not matter if she has more money/legal representation than you.
 
And in case no one has said so. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

I'm married with 2 kids and hope to god I can keep it together. My parents had an awful divorce.
 
Get custody of your kids, she is not stable and will only hurt them. You can't fix crazy, you should have let her go sooner.
 
do what ever you can to get those kids , give everything you own away to her if you have to

Not happening. Her parents are driving this train.

If it was spring break/summer, than yeah, I'd go full bore and do it, cause I'd have the money to. I'm lucky when I get 10 hrs a wk now. You think the judge is gonna leave them here with me making $400/month? I think not.


We're supposedly supposed to live here until the bank comes for the house, not making anymore payments on that either now. I want to leave yesterday, and if this bitch wouldn't have "stole" our money, I could.
She's doing everything she can to make this as painful as possible for me, after all I did for her. God what a fucking cunt.
 
That sucks, coastie. :( Will be prayin' for ya. FWIW, in case you ever find yourself married to another one of those, a good self defense or jiu-jitsu school will teach you how to do numerous holds and locks to prevent someone from trying to hit or claw you while causing little to no damage to the attacker. :o
 
That sucks, coastie. :( Will be prayin' for ya. FWIW, in case you ever find yourself married to another one of those, a good self defense or jiu-jitsu school will teach you how to do numerous holds and locks to prevent someone from trying to hit or claw you while causing little to no damage to the attacker. :o

Not ever getting married again.

ETA: I already know those moves:p
 
Not happening. Her parents are driving this train.

If it was spring break/summer, than yeah, I'd go full bore and do it, cause I'd have the money to. I'm lucky when I get 10 hrs a wk now. You think the judge is gonna leave them here with me making $400/month? I think not.


We're supposedly supposed to live here until the bank comes for the house, not making anymore payments on that either now. I want to leave yesterday, and if this bitch wouldn't have "stole" our money, I could.
She's doing everything she can to make this as painful as possible for me, after all I did for her. God what a fucking cunt.

sucks man.. maybe a fathers advocacy group could help you?
 
Holy Dante's inferno batman. Try teaching English as a foreign language. Good way to escape to various places all over the world.
 
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We're supposedly supposed to live here until the bank comes for the house, not making anymore payments on that either now. I want to leave yesterday, and if this bitch wouldn't have "stole" our money, I could.
She's doing everything she can to make this as painful as possible for me, after all I did for her. God what a fucking cunt.


Sweetie, don't you have a friend or a family member you can stay with? Don't put yourself through this.
 
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